Personally, I think people who insist on confessing to someone who they know already has a significant other are among the worst sorts of inconsiderate, selfish and self-centered individuals. They think only of themselves and do not consider or care what adverse affects their selfish actions might cause to the object of their affection, or to the significant other. They cause others to suffer emotional pain and distress just so they can feel good that they were able to express their feelings. What a bunch of hogwash.That's one of the worst things you can do in high school. Confessing in front of others to a girl who already has a boyfriend.