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But the relationship is still salvageable after the divorce - even if it would be just a tacit acknowledge of each other and nothing more. But cheating throws that under a train.
Yes, but way before someone finds some other's dick in them there should happen a lot of things. And Akemi decided to use the asset only she has to hurt Goto, knowing well what he has nor choice nor spine.
1. Its no about salvaging or the future. it is about resolving the resentment. People mainly cheat because of resentment and lack of validation. They get validation from others and/or punish their partner by cheating on them. Most other types of cheating happens as he dissolution of relationship starts or cause it to start, such are far rarer.
2. Sex is as spontenous as holding hands tho ? Especially for someone like akemi. She can find a sexual partner in 20 mins give or take. Pretty much any single man near her would only need a short talk before visiting the pound town.
And yeah explaining why something happens is not the same as saying its moral. Cheating is immoral but its human like lying and killing. You can be cynical, you can be idealistic but denying these things happen and how they happen is foolish. But as we look at the situation, Akemi isa victim that never gotten the support she needed and later didn't get the support she needed. Her actions after moe slandered her are first escalatory and confrontional later evasive and deceitful. But her first mental crisis is blatantly a result of teen pregnancy and shuns lack of support during her time of turmoil, which was partly caused by akemis parents cotrolling behaviour towards him and partly because while an adult, he was also quite a child as a 20yo. He internalized all his resentment and puked it on moe after she was born while she externalized this resentment and "got back" at shun by cheating.