Heiner, have you considered that you may need a therapist? Maybe a new pair of eyes and ears as well, because clearly you're unable to recognise how much Annette has grown and changed
My dude the ring is stuck because your hand is warm if you leave the glove off and let the hand cool completely the ring will come right off. stop trying to find "messages from the universe" to keep a grip hold of your ex-wife and go to therapy