"I realized I had found the one" but only when it comes to shibari and bdsm, no underlying feelings at all, no desire to spend more time around Each other whatsoever. Ffs
I get that the author is trying to say that bdsm doesn't have to only be done with an SO. That you can be dom and sub without having to first be in an exterior relationship. But come on! He renovated the kitchen and sauna for her, are clearly in a very personal relationship with each other and nobody else, but no, they aren't actually in a romantic relationship.
Argh! I love and hate this writer so much!!!
Edit: wait, they are in a committed relationship??