Need Help Finding Manga

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I need help finding a bl/yaoi manga. The main character had a girlfriend or wife I can’t remember, who he caught cheating in their house so they separated. After that I think the main character downloaded a gay dating app(I’m not sure but I think he wanted to try something new or idk). He met this guy and planned to hook up with him but backed out so they just stayed in contact and became friends. The guy has blonde hair(with black roots I think), has tattoos and piercings I think, and I think he’s likes a security guard or gangster at some club or something. Btw both characters are muscular and tall. After they get together later in the manga the blonde guy is the top all the time but the main character always asks if he can top(of course the blonde guy says no). But at the end of the manga the main character finally convinced the blonde guy to let him top. That’s all I remember so if someone can help me I’d be very grateful. Please and thank you!