Ohitorisama ni wa Naremashita no de. Konyakusha Houchi-chuu! - Ch. 4

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I appreciate how he noticed he fucked up big time
"trust is built in drops and lost in buckets", there is no way he can fix this in one day, the moment she lost all interest in him was a point of no turning back, at this point even if he explained it all her reaction would be a "oh, sorry for the misunderstanding" but it wouldn't change anything, he needs to rebuild the whole relationship from the bottom.

this is even worse than if she was mad at him, or if they where strangers, when they say "the opposite of love isn't hate is apathy" this is what they mean, he is working from the negatives at this point, she built a wall around her emotions where she doesn't care what he does, he can't make her sad but he can't make her happy either because of this, if she was mad he could work on it little by little but since she has totally cut him off, he needs something big just for one more chance, small things won't work and just be brushed off.
 
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there's that fucked translation again. Page 15 " i won't be able to meet with you outside of diplomatic ..."
Won't be able is present tense, implying he will be going to a foreign country.
It should be Wouldn't, past tense, implying that seeing her would be hard to do.
 
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I really don't like how he immediately starts dictating what she can and can't do without his permission. Instead of saying "you can't go out to town without me" why not try... inviting her to town yourself like you did today? Even now he's putting the onus of the relationship onto Nicole. He still hasn't pulled his head out of his ass.
 
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As is my commenting tradition, fuck this guy

Like, seriously dude, the first thing you try doing after neglecting your fiancée for what, a year at this point? Years? The first thing you do after that neglect and constantly making it known that she means less to you than your childhood friend is to try and unilaterally dictate where shes allowed to go and what shes allowed to do based on your own comfort, ignoring her feelings on the matter?

I say again, fuck this guy
 
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...He's a teenager. He's not an "emotionally stunted manchild" he's an emotionally stunted child. How many normal high schoolers would be capable of handling stuff like this?
Based on their expressions, his fellow high schoolers certainly think he's fucking up so badly that he qualifies as an emotionally stunted manchild.
 
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Immediately, he was failing the assignment because he should be throwing himself at her feet begging for another chance. Clearly, it took until the end for him to actually realize how serious things are.

It's fine if she lives her best single life, but I would also prefer some other guy coming in to sweep her off her feet over her taking this dumbass back.
 

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