Ore no Hatsukoi wa Kanawanai. - Oneshot

[tremor3258]

Important lesson there. Still some sorting out to do but it could have gone a lot worse.

 

[Boneless_Pizza_69]

If you can get rejected and stay around to watch her be with someone else every day, you weren't really in love.

You have a wrapped sence of love.

 

[Jybu]

honestly that could've gone way worse so ey, cut your losses and move on I guess ¯\(ツ)/¯

 

[RantingDuck]

What a asshole, didnt even believe thst his friend was a lesbian and probably hoped it was just a phase to get over so he could swoop in. Until someone actual said yes to her and his shitty reality started to crumble. With friends like that who needs enemies.

 

[Rafalga]

If he never confessed in the end, it would have been a different story but he did and she still wants him to stick around. He had absolutely horrendous thoughts but he never acted on them in a meaningful way. Her on the other hand knows he is in love with him but still needs him around as her emotional tampon. He showed empathy and growth, she had none. She gives zero fucks about how he feels. She gets to have her cake and eat it too. She just needs him around to rely on him for her day to day life. There is nothing bittersweet about this as i don't see this lasting much as they should naturally drift apart over time. Being a third wheel for someone you have a crush on is not at all easy but quick to fix. You stay away.

This is trying to idealize a very toxic and one-sided relationship.

 

[CannibalShinobi]

If he never confessed in the end, it would have been a different story but he did and she still wants him to stick around. He had absolutely horrendous thoughts but he never acted on them in a meaningful way. Her on the other hand knows he is in love with him but still needs him around as her emotional tampon. He showed empathy and growth, she had none. She gives zero fucks about how he feels. She gets to have her cake and eat it too. She just needs him around to rely on him for her day to day life. There is nothing bittersweet about this as i don't see this lasting much as they should naturally drift apart over time. Being a third wheel for someone you have a crush on is not at all easy but quick to fix. You stay away.

This is trying to idealize a very toxic and one-sided relationship.

God forbid a girl be gay and want friends.

 

[Rafalga]

God forbid a girl be gay and want friends.

Is this what you could come up with after reading that post? There is nothing wrong about wanting friends or being gay (no idea why you went there like a crackhead) but there is something wrong with acting like everything can stay the same after learning how he feels. She pretty much doesn't give a fuck about how he feels and just wants to continue to rely on him for emotional support. That is fucked up and pretty toxic. That's what i meant when i said she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Regardless, it won't work anyway. He will eventually distance himself in order to stop torturing himself since love is not something you can turn off on a whim. I just hope she understands why he did when the time comes but i won't hold my breath.

 

[CannibalShinobi]

Is this what you could come up with after reading that post? There is nothing wrong about wanting friends or being gay (no idea why you went there like a crackhead) but there is something wrong with acting like everything can stay the same after learning how he feels. She pretty much doesn't give a fuck about how he feels and just wants to continue to rely on him for emotional support. That is fucked up and pretty toxic. That's what i meant when i said she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Regardless, it won't work anyway. He will eventually distance himself in order to stop torturing himself since love is not something you can turn off on a whim. I just hope she understands why he did when the time comes but i won't hold my breath.

The girl doesn't want to fuck her male best friend and instead wants him to remain her best friend. And your dumbass response is calling her toxic. She doesn't want to lose her best friend and you are trying to make her look like the bad guy. Fucking pathetic "nice guy" mentality.

 

[ItsTikki]

Just another polygamy L

 

[Jybu]

What a asshole, didnt even believe thst his friend was a lesbian and probably hoped it was just a phase to get over so he could swoop in. Until someone actual said yes to her and his shitty reality started to crumble. With friends like that who needs enemies.

wait, why did I just take that in... your completely right... fuck this guy tf 😭

 

[AnimuVsMango]

Damn, I thought I was going to witness an actual love triangle for the first time, but turns out it was just a guy being happy he was offered a seat at the cuck chair

 

[oneWhoreadsalot]

Wow

 

[Vmpslushie]

Glad we got the yuri end instead of love triangle drama.

 

[Trevoga]

I should stop reading comments, they're full of idiots.

 

[MelonManic]

OH MAN IS THIS A LONGER ONE??
Already know this is gonna be a fire one tap
Hello new Yuri, analyze yada yada

Huh so I'm following a dude in love with half the Yuri in love with her half of the Yuri?
This is... Certainly a concept, and yeah this Yuri I can tell yer not meant to be
Id you were meant to be someone would stop breathing, and I'm not talking about me

Oh this poor lad is third wheel to the Yuri
Oh god it's a horrible position to be in actually
I feel you bro, most be AGONIZING

"And then she should fall in love with me"

Yous speaking hypotheticals man but imma need you to slow your roll there for a sec
We don't need the one to stop breathing to be you by any means
...
But also hold on this isn't some love triangle shit is it-

OKAY BUT HOW AND WHY ARE YOU CONSTANTLY THIRD WHEELING THEM
ACCEPTANCE CAN'T COME IF YOU CANT ALLOW THEM TO DO YURI THINGS ON THIER OWN
IF YOU DONT KNOW WHEN TO TAKE YOUR LEAVE AND LET THINGS RUN ITS COURSE
That or we happen to be following all of his third wheeling adventures

Damn Uber friendzones gotta suck...
But she thought yalls was dating cause of how attached to the hip yalls are
Is this not a hint man should take his leave at times?
If it's meant to be it's meant to be and will work out?

Oh so NOW YOU TAKE A LEAVE
Only now that there's reasonable suspicion of a fucking love triangle ay?
Go fuck yerself mate
The audacity
I said it once and I'll say it again, observes of Yuri with the Yuri itself need learn when to let the girls have a moment, you needn't insert yerself in every moment... Though to be fair that doesn't completely apply here
He wants the Yuri to fail, cause he's a selfish teenager

OH GOD I COULDN'T HE MORE RIGHT
AAHHA
And this is what you get for wishing the Yuri to fail
And going to such extremes to grin sadistically while imagining it?
I got a padded room with yer name in it blood
Say hi to John for me

Wise words of today, when dealing with unrequited love its healthier to not wish upon your crush a terrible love life so they eventually end up with you, not only is that highly unlikely as you become removed from the even possibility of being a romantic interest through being a rock and auto friend zoned
But one should learn to either work on moving on, or to take happiness in their happiness and be happy with their romantic endeavors, no matter how painful, or create distance
Whatever you do don't be this guy, Yuri karma hit man hard

And that's okay, I'm glad it seems he's trying to be okay with that
And look at that, platonic friends are just as important as the romantic entanglements if not more so
Ya love to see it

Hmmm
Man being focus caught be off guard but he's an interesting character
With some nice Yuri as well and not from the perspective of either girl, which isn't something one gets often....
This gets five boo- nope nope, not even I'm that unhinged
Have a GRRRRREAT DAY

 

[SpencerSDH]

What a asshole, didnt even believe thst his friend was a lesbian and probably hoped it was just a phase to get over so he could swoop in. Until someone actual said yes to her and his shitty reality started to crumble. With friends like that who needs enemies.

He's a child.

 

[Camy]

That is not the point really. It is more so about friendship being seen as lesser or insignificant next to romance. At it's core, he is most afraid of not being "important" to her. And probably due to biases about relationships, especially those between men and women, he thinks that the only way to stay important to each other is if they're romantically involved. Which is a lot of internalized misogyny and homophobia, as he was literally comforted by the fact that his friend is seemingly only interested in women, which "dooms" her to never having her feelings reciprocated, leaving him labouring under the delusion that if he's there for her enough, he'll eventually get to win her as a romantic partner.

Her talking about how he has a place by her side is breaking that preconception in his brain, ensuring that his friendship is valuable even when she's dating someone. Only when he gives up viewing her as only a romantic prospect and instead decides to view her as a person/friend is he finally able to genuinely be happy for his friend when seeing her happy. The oneshot is ultimately about this boy being pulled out of his mindset into one that allows him to actually care for and be happy with the people who are important to him.

At first I thought it was building towards a throuple so I was a little disappointed when that didn't end up being the case. But reading this and giving it some thought, I think I like this interpretation more.