I'll be completely honest, my attraction to Nao, as a girl, is part of the reason I was pretty upset about the they/them thing, and I kinda imagine any angry comments are also coming from that perspective. Us reverse trap lovers are a force to be reckoned with I suppose. But, uh, don't be too mad at me here, it's ultimately something you're doing for free and the translators/editors choice, so that's what it'll go with. It's not that hard to replace the dialogue with "she/her" in my head anyway.