Otome Danshi ni Koisuru Otome - Vol. 3 Ch. 333 - In Order to Be Myself

[Mikhail]

Are you doing ok? It looks like you were going through a lot of feelings when you wrote this.
Also, obligatory “lots of cis women can’t have kids yadda yadda pretend I wrote the whole spiel”.

Dang. It's been six friggin years since I wrote that comment. I honestly thought nobody was gonna see it because it was a late response to an already dead comment section at the time.

For what it's worth, since then I haven't changed much. I'm still a dude. My opinions have changed somewhat, but not terribly? If anything I just have a better outlet for dealing with that kind of thing - as it turns out, I'm actually more of the first thing (a crossdresser) than the second (an autogynephiliac). At the time I wasn't really able to explore that part of myself but I was lucky to be able to get the opportunity to start doing crossplay/crossdressing regularly about a year after that comment.

As for the birth thing, well, really I was referring moreso to me forsaking my own ability to have kids than anything else. There's a lot of other stuff I could go in depth on if I wanted to like you could, but it really doesn't matter. If I were writing that same comment now I'd probably say it very differently (or not at all, as frankly I'm tired of arguing about all of this). I'm satisfied with who I am now. Thanks for asking I suppose.

 

[Thrembs]

Dang. It's been six friggin years since I wrote that comment. I honestly thought nobody was gonna see it because it was a late response to an already dead comment section at the time.

For what it's worth, since then I haven't changed much. I'm still a dude. My opinions have changed somewhat, but not terribly? If anything I just have a better outlet for dealing with that kind of thing - as it turns out, I'm actually more of the first thing (a crossdresser) than the second (an autogynephiliac). At the time I wasn't really able to explore that part of myself but I was lucky to be able to get the opportunity to start doing crossplay/crossdressing regularly about a year after that comment.

As for the birth thing, well, really I was referring moreso to me forsaking my own ability to have kids than anything else. There's a lot of other stuff I could go in depth on if I wanted to like you could, but it really doesn't matter. If I were writing that same comment now I'd probably say it very differently (or not at all, as frankly I'm tired of arguing about all of this). I'm satisfied with who I am now. Thanks for asking I suppose.

Aight.
Glad you’ve figured things out better.

As an aside, autogynophelia isn’t really… a thing. A lot of cis lesbians fit the definition. “It’s awesome to be a gay woman.”
It was kinda forced into the DSM (lots of weirdness gets in every edition, but it’s usually better than the last one) and no one paid any mind aside people arguing on Twitter.

But eh. Whatevs.
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