if one doesn't put up a facade everyone will just swear at each other (i swear at my friend everyday because there's no need something like facade if im with them they already know my true self well sometime i have to put facade depend on situration)
and like ValKnight said you can't invite unmarried woman to your room that easily lmao it's like you offer her some fucc if he just want a private talk why not invite her for private tea party just 2 of them
im cheer on you edilene-chan and incest is wincest