Lesson of the chapter and the whole story:
Don't share your pancakes with people that will ask for them but will let u get burned and in pain, and at the end won't appreciate them and will leave your precious effort in crumbles and your precious feelings crushed.
Mmm, I'm trying to put myself in the friend's shoes (supposing that he's a real friend and not a piece of trash) and I kinda get it to a certain extent. I mean, imagine seeing your BFF getting closer to some mafia guy when u know he's a harmless kid, but at the same time, what he's doing is wrong. He's being too judgmental, he doesn't know Geum and he acts as if he knew what would be the best for Sangwha, he's a control freak, ignoring that his friend is a person with his own thoughts and values.
Regardless of Sangwha's relationships, he has no right to be bossy towards anyone, Sangwha is supposed to be his friend and he should be treated with respect, simply because he's a human. U can't act like that, defying his own decisions just because you're not happy with them. If he really cares for him he should share what's inside of his mind and stay there for him at any moment if something goes south, but that's it. Sangwha is an adult already for goodness sake. And wow dude, he's talking u about his boundaries and you use that cheap manipulative trick? :l
Tysm for the chapters <3