Paranoid Love - Ch. 17 - Zhen Ji's Provocation
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social anxiety makeovers -
whatever that is, seriously... i'm assuming it is forceful immersion into whatever your anxiety may be and i am wholeheartedly against it.
unless it is the person with the anxiety's idea, and only then would i support it IF that person had the support of a licensed psychologist who specializes in overcoming anxieties.
the person has to want to change, period. i'm not into being forcefully upbeat motivational suggestions & support about changing nor would a guilt trip approach work. you gotta have a willing patient and a shrinker.
all you can do is wait until they say they want to change, and support them. and keep your mouth shut. except for praise. and love, lots of love.
whatever that is, seriously... i'm assuming it is forceful immersion into whatever your anxiety may be and i am wholeheartedly against it.
unless it is the person with the anxiety's idea, and only then would i support it IF that person had the support of a licensed psychologist who specializes in overcoming anxieties.
the person has to want to change, period. i'm not into being forcefully upbeat motivational suggestions & support about changing nor would a guilt trip approach work. you gotta have a willing patient and a shrinker.
all you can do is wait until they say they want to change, and support them. and keep your mouth shut. except for praise. and love, lots of love.
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Idk taking as someone who has social anxiety that was severely controlling my life in HS and that still to this day will sometimes be so strong that i am scared of going out even to get some food for days on end if someone came to me and wanted to help me with it like this,i would have really appreciated it.
Of course it's wrong forcing your ideals onto people but sometimes you need to push them in the right direction of self healing(or not healing as much as adapting) if you can clearly see they are unhappy even if they act fine about it cause there is a chance that they don't know how life can be without it
That's just my opinion tho
Of course it's wrong forcing your ideals onto people but sometimes you need to push them in the right direction of self healing(or not healing as much as adapting) if you can clearly see they are unhappy even if they act fine about it cause there is a chance that they don't know how life can be without it
That's just my opinion tho
