5 years wasn't in ur contract sis, now you're being ungrateful...
And using him .... Not knowing the end of the plot, chosing a different path than the original female lead will always affect things (as a transmigrator/reincarnator she should be smarter than that... Ffs).....
Not to mention calling him being 'angry'/'disgusted' on your behalf (basically saving you), true nature.... Would you have preferred them to live and come bother you again? To terrorize you/spread rumours, would you have preferred for them to actually SA/R*pe you...??? Like what?