This father gets it.
"Listen daughter, he might be our hero but look at him. If you don't force him into something nothing will ever progress, he's too mild and use to not attention. So push him on a bed, get on top and do what you must or he'll be an old man by the time he finally act upon all those signals, signs, billboards, televised announcements, newspaper articles, tic-tok videos and tweets you been giving him saying you're willing."