i cant tell if you're quoting someone or put the quote filter thing on accident
if it was something i said, mb, got awful memory
but assuming thats a mistake, then
idk thought it was clear that he was a boy, pretty sure his own parents call him that
maybe he transitioned to be more like his granny lmao
also i havent read this in god knows how long, sorry if i've forgotten something or missed something in the new chapters, idk when i want to reread this