guess it's good to be modest/have her guard let down/chip away tho i would've half expected her to be petty and get suuuper dressed up (tho as far as casual/meeting clothes are the dress is nice tho more so something i'd see as an office lady acceptable outfit/dress code versus an outing with another 'friend')
it's hard to tell w/o no color but i guess the one on the right does stick out, although stuff like stripes/super small polka dots would give me a headache staring, surely a salaryman would have enough ties but i guess can't hurt to have more. versus a 'smaller' gift like a handkerchief or so