Right because threatening a man to abandon his trade is not a mark on her character or anything
On the contrary, it's definitely her character and personality showing there.
Me, I'll be saying in in harsher ways and tones. It's either he cooperate or he gets the short stick out of his decision.
By cutting off his will to resist through the overloading of information and threats, it will save me a lot of time. So, why not just do it harshly. Not like it will change the outcome much, especially when I have already prepared a way out for him which is, in this case, not anything worse than what he has to give up.