@D4CLT
I feel like people getting mad is valid, like everything this dude does is yikes. And for me, it's like entertaining yikes because I'm just like "wow I'm glad I'm not in this type of relationship," and there's like a level of clear detachment for me.
but there's definitely going to be people where stuff like this hits harder. and hearing people's thoughts on this is interesting to me.
besides all criticism should be heard as long as it's not in bad faith, and most of the comments so far about the guy's yikes-ness feels like it's coming from a good place and from people who are down to read more, but still feel a level of ick about his actions