This trope need to fucking die so much.
Going out of your way to change and match perfectly someone criterias just to end up in a relationship with them.... Is a red flag.
And I found it so cunning.
It's so close of what we see in the "Nice Guy" trope.
Always there for you, always helping you, supportive, hearing you out, the perfect person for your life until you get in a relationship with someone or trying to.
They are always there waiting for you to finally choose them as your lover or fuck buddy for some.
I'm waiting for the story which will advise people to just move on. People becoming gay just for your pretty eyes are not so common.