Let's see, I've been there, what, three times? One step forward, and six steps back. Some people know how to communicate, how to read indirect language, how to respect another's emotions, and then, some just live in a tiny world surround by no one but themselves. Finding a romantic match has very little to do with what's outside. With some people there is just no way to make any kind of real connection, no matter how much you try. It's best to slink away, lick your wounds, and live to fight another day.