@Fucking_Idiot
Nuthin` really. Just remembered some similar shit, that happened in my life
and wanted to share, maybe discuss...
@princeofcups
What you say is true, there is fine line between freedom, discipline and dictatorship, but unfortunately it depends on the people- some people need mor discipline, some less. Some people are born psychopaths, and just need heavy hand, others would wither and die under it
But while i understand that, i also cannot stomach people, who have this "one, proper way" they are forcing on the others. Y`see, i am fairly logical in what i do, and i tend to look at what i did, and judge "did it work?". I know it is a smartass thing coming from me, but i would think, that in case of that ex military asshole i would notice drastic change between how my daughter behaves at home and how she is at school or between friends. And then started to think "why that happens?". Maybe talk with the wife? Maybe take a good look at other parents? Because there is some signs i am possibly not doing everything right...
There was this time i was in the middle school- hormones started swinging, i had only smartass firends at school- and so i started to behave like an insufferable cunt- i didn`t see that change, after all it was gradual- but people around started to behave differently... So i took good, hard look at myself... And turned out i am a fucking cunt, asshole, smartass- exactly everything i hate about people. My "rebelious" phaze lasted 4 months, after that i really started to clean up my act. Wasn`t easy or painless and i cannot state i eradicated all of my behaviours like that, but still it is better than it was
And point about my, bleh, "firend" is that even though i didn`t like her- that phone was hers. She bought it, so it is logical to me, that at the very worst, what would happen, should she loose it, her dad should go "so, this and this much money- you lost it" i think that was punishment enough