Since When Do Guys Find Divorcees Attractive? - Vol. 2 Ch. 10 - Honest feelings.

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Yeeaaa... this is definitely not going to work is it? Boy is confessing some heavy love promising future to a much older coworker, a lady who she met a day after her divorce, and had only known for roughly 2 weeks. He is looking at her with rose tinted glasses and in way over his head.

She may relent and go with the flow for now, feeling wanted after so long, but in the end I can see the boy noped out of the responsibility and the baggage the MC carry, and MC will probably try to adjust to him for a while but eventually realized they are mismatched and let him go after a couple of dates and sex.
 
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Man's got some determination. Personally I'd see the way she reacted as a big red flag and nope out, but I'm old and embittered.
Honestly same. I've been called pushy when I was younger, so now if muster up the courage to ask you, it's on you to respond honestly. If not, then you're not worth the energy
 
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I think she made very good points as to why she doesn't want to. She said she isn't feeling confident, he says it doesn't matter. It absolutely does. Her mental health at this point isn't ready for a new relationship, and the kids too immature to understand, thinking "love conquers all."

I'm sure that's how the author will right it too, but its not realistic.
 
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The way he went about this is very self centred and shows his immaturity. If she accepts I’ll be a bit sad.

He should respect her feelings and try to slowly work with her through it, not just keep forcing a decision on her when she’s said she’s not confident yet. It just feels like he’s trying to make her answer as soon as possible as to not give her a chance to properly come to a decision which is super weird.

Even her comment about her heart beating shouldn’t mean too much given that suddenly being hugged without expecting it would do that regardless, especially when it’s not just about a possible physical attraction, rather the emotional connection and plan for a future.

Big ehhh towards ml after that.
 
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Honestly same. I've been called pushy when I was younger, so now if muster up the courage to ask you, it's on you to respond honestly. If not, then you're not worth the energy
It's not just that, her insecurity and reticence is a red flag for problems along the road. If she's this non-committal now, how is she going to be when things actually get real? That said, she's a cute af character and I want nothing but the best for her.
 
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once I started I couldn’t stop: this was such a frustrating chapter

She’s too pretty to be this stressed
at this point it’s harassment. It’s only been two weeks
She's telling him her concerns about being with him (age and marriage and children, her mental health, how other will see them) and he just brushes it off with his feelings and the power of love 💕💕
sure he’s being more assertive than ml were used to but why isn’t he saying I want to date you with marriage in mind within the next 2-3 years, I can see you as the mother of my child, and or I don’t care what other people think about us. Why isn’t he addressing her concerns!!!!!
She’s 35 she says she doesn’t have timef for him, time to date him for 3 year and then for him to say I don’t want my girl friend 38 year or scared that he will say I don’t want the mother of my child to be 39 years old. For him to decide I don’t want child when he become 27, she doesn’t this relationship to be a waste of her time
Maybe she wants to have a relationship that will have a future, and she can’t see that because this guy is too immature love will not feed you, keep you warm, cloth you
The limit for dating a younger young is 3 years when you past your mid twenties.
People hate it when it’s said that men and women are different. The biological clock will kick your ass if you want kids and wait until 43 to have them.
She hasn’t even addressed the trauma of disillusionment of her marriage and her mother slapping her. She doesn’t need anymore stress
 
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If what that one guy who zoomed through the raws and commented on Ch7 said was true might just wait this one out until like chapter 60-70.
 
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I think she made very good points as to why she doesn't want to. She said she isn't feeling confident, he says it doesn't matter. It absolutely does. Her mental health at this point isn't ready for a new relationship, and the kids too immature to understand, thinking "love conquers all."

I'm sure that's how the author will right it too, but its not realistic.
It looks like this is a Josei so I doubt it's going to be that simple and clean. These are targeted at adult women, and women LOVE drama in their romance stories (and many would claim in real life too).

Also the thumbnail seems to be from Vol 7 and our couple does not look happy at all. Someone probably cheats.
 

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