@NowhereJoker:
So basically, me, in the previous post? :'p
Having said all that, of course they have lady knights so it's not actually exactly that kind of society... But, hey, I never expect total setting consistency from this sort of story. XD
So, I mean, like, by the same token, it's already inconsistent that ladies can become knights but the "only option" other than to get married is to keep working in a maid. Are there lots of jobs available for women to be self-sufficient, or are there not...?
But I'm still skeptical of assuming that the author is especially dismissive of same-sex relationships (though it is entirely possible), in roughly the same way that I'd be hesitant to assume that she's a sexist who believes that men should be the primary bread-winners and women must get married ASAP (though that, too, is possible, although less likely).
Even though the choice to have an assumed-straight society is, indeed, a choice, and not made in a vacuum, it isn't necessarily indicative of homophobia on the author's part.
(Speaking of things not happening in a vacuum, there's another aspect to this, that there's a difference between the
acceptance that someone may like the same gender and
expectation that someone may do so—I mean, I live in probably one of the most gay-friendly areas to be found in English-speaking world, and even here it definitely feels like it's only recently gotten to the point where you don't simply assume people are straight (until suggested otherwise, that is, you understand). The notion that it might be
genuinely rude to assume someone is straight, is very new, and not universal even here... I'm
freely assuming Korea is not there yet. So disparaging the author for thinking like that seems a bit much to me, I think.)
It should be said that if this were like, some well-cultivated relationship, or, say, someone turning away without a thought in the middle of an actual romance, instead of from one-of-many silly looks-based crushes of hers on some boys, I might feel more strongly about how cavalierly it was handled.