I think it's on you to take that seriously or not.
Just like many het romances, many BL or GL titles don't represent reality, and that's totally fine. People like to explore darker topics in fiction, it's fine to be uncomfortable with that too.
But if those types of situations make you that emotional, I suggest sticking to reading manga aimed at pre-teens. They're very wholesome and safe.
Ummm…
I think you’re misunderstanding my question, the reason for it, and the tone.
I’m not a man, and do not even find men attractive, so I wanted to know if getting rough with your partner was a thing considered forgivable in such relationships.
I’m a 42 year old, married woman with an 11yo child. I can handle serious, intense fiction. This just seems like they’re gonna get back together and that’s mildly fucked. It would be very fucked if real.
”I hope this is uncommon. It’s a crime in real life.”
”Maybe you should go read comics for babies, then.”
🙄