Sonna Kazoku nara Sutechaeba? - Vol. 1 Ch. 5

[Victim_16]

Someone should spoil the whole thing. Just divorce her bro! She's not worth the pain. Is the wife cheating on him? Will Megane fall in love with him? I'm too curious.

 

[Monovar]

Yeah he probably shouldn't have suggested aborting if his wife didn't suggest it first. She was the one suffering so it should've been up to her to decide if her physical state was bad enough to consider abortion or not. But the whole drama here kinda stems from a dumb place since he obviously cared about her which is why he suggested it but she was just a bitch about the whole thing.

Also, I don't appreciate the crappy way the author is going to create misunderstandings and drama by having the kid run away without hearing what the father had to say.

 

[kucchi-desu]

Just separate mygod

 

[Maxoball]

Both of them are at fault

1. The husband should have console her and actually make time to talk to her about how she feels

2. The wife is over reacting about it by guilt tripping him into saying those words (yes ik how painful pregnancy can be. I've dealt with a pregnant lady before and read enough to know)

3. I get that recommending abortion would make a soon to be mother snap but they could have talked it over since they literally live together instead of keeping the hatred for like (idk how old is that kid?)


This can all be over if they talked it over from the very beginning fr (but key you gotta put gasoline to make the fire[drama] beautiful and entertaining)

 

[a27wolf]

what is it with japanese and a lack of fucking communication? jesus fucking christ

 

[vorquta]

sadge

 

[ryokome]

theyre all retarded what the fuck lmao

 

[kaezeribato]

the husband could never understand even half of what she is experiencing so of course she’d be irritated he could casually say what he said when she’s holding on this much.

The good old "yOu dOnT uNdErStAnD wAmEn!"
We can understand thermodynamics, astrophysics, chemistry, human psycology, but people like you think that pregnancy is some crazy magical shit that no man can understand.
When the health of a mother is in danger it's LOGICAL to talk about abortion, this is the reason why abortion was legalized in the first place...
The dude literaly only said "why dont you think about abortion one time" and he had to live 13 year without being treated as a human, but there are still idiot like you to defend this woman... How about you idiot think about waht the child had to live because of her action? No? The poor woman who had to ear "why dont you abort" after having to deal with pregnacy is such a poor little thing, she was right to fuck up the life of her kid...

 

[kaezeribato]

yes ik how painful pregnancy can be. I've dealt with a pregnant lady before and read enough to know

It's realy is not as hard as some try to make it. Some women have a hard time, but these are rare case of women having health issue during the pregnancy or "delivery" that could potentialy kill them.

I'm from a family with a large magority of women, and they all have kid, and the only one who realy had a hard time was because she nearly died when giving birth to her first kid.
But a normal pregnancy is not that hard, nature made women for this. Human evolved for hundred thousand of year to "optimize" this process.
All the women i know who had child kept the same life style (with the exeption that they stopped all alcool, tabaco and other things that could hurt their kid) until 1 or 2 month before the end. Some women have to rise many kid while having one in their womb and they live normaly, and most keep working for a long time.

The only issue is that some women are way too happy to complain about every little things. When a woman say "why it's only me that suffer" while glaring at her child's father you can understand that she is an imature person.

 

[Koyomiya]

The good old "yOu dOnT uNdErStAnD wAmEn!"
We can understand thermodynamics, astrophysics, chemistry, human psycology, but people like you think that pregnancy is some crazy magical shit that no man can understand.
When the health of a mother is in danger it's LOGICAL to talk about abortion, this is the reason why abortion was legalized in the first place...
The dude literaly only said "why dont you think about abortion one time" and he had to live 13 year without being treated as a human, but there are still idiot like you to defend this woman... How about you idiot think about waht the child had to live because of her action? No? The poor woman who had to ear "why dont you abort" after having to deal with pregnacy is such a poor little thing, she was right to fuck up the life of her kid...

My intention was not to defend the wife, as much as to clarify that both are at fault in this scenario. Granted, while we as males can understand the biological know how of pregnancy, we are not the ones who experience it ourselves and that is a matter of fact. Even if you do supposedly know "a lot of women" who experienced pregnancy, you do not know every woman who has ever been pregnant, nor every experience a pregnant woman goes through since there are billions of women around the world.

Regardless, we are in agreement the wife here is a terrible person who made a very poor decision, so there is no reason for you to get riled up friend. And as I said she is vindictive, and as later chapters show, clearly has some personality issues as well. These characters are nothing short of dysfunctional and hence have a very dysfunctional family.

 

[kaezeribato]

you do not know every woman who has ever been pregnant, nor every experience a pregnant woman goes through since there are billions of women around the world.

Pregnacy is relatively the same for most.

The main difference between two women who are pregnant come from the country's culture (like these shithole that treat women as object) or the developpement of medicine, and from the health, the lifestyle and the personality of the mother.
For the culture i cant say much, but for the medicine diference it's actualy quite well documented.

The difference between women's pregancy due to their lifestyle, health and personaly are well know, and studied a lot all around the world.
Bitch who smoke, drink, party, do drugs, have a realy hard time with it, quite obviously because they are shitty human.
There are also people who have health issue do to their shitty personality, the most common being the 150kg whale (but you can also add extrem narcissist and egoistic people in this one), these people also have a hard time because they spend more time saying that the world is the root of their issue and not how they themself act. And the main reason they have a hard time is because they refuse to listen to what everyone know about pregnancy and dont want to change their way of life for the safety of their kids.

On the other hand most women live pregnancy nearly the same way, simply because with the most basic knowledge they will be able to deal with eveythings quite easily. If you take care of your health before your pregnancy then you wont have a real hard time.
You will have to deal with morning sickness, but they will barely affect you because you are healthy and you listened to you doc about what to do to make them pass.
The hardest part will be to be able to control your hormone that will fuck up your ability to make any kind of decision. These will make you want to eat random shit just because. This will also make it so you are extremely easily depressed and scared, but this can easily be deal with if you prepared before hand and have a good family surounding you. You will also be pissed at everyone for no reason.
The weight you take will not be a real issue of you take care of yourself, most women keep living normaly, even those who have a job or rise many kids alone. It will start hindering your life in the last 3 to 4 month, and even then any healthy woman will be alright. All you need to do is to listen to all the things your docs tell you to be carefull about.

The only real issue women who are healthy and took care of their kids can face during their pregnancy are suddent health and mental issue. The mental one are all kind of depression that happen at different time of the pregnancy. These are mainly due to their hormone having fun, they can all be dealt with relatively easily if the woman is inclined to listen to what the docs tell her instead of being stupidly stubborn. These can take a huge toll on the woman, but docs are accustomed to this do it's not realy an issue.

The suddent physical issue cant be prevented most of the time, but are nearly always cured at least in developped country. Some rare case can put the risk of the mother, the kid, or the two at risk, but in these case the docs will do their best until the end.

Saying that we cant understand pregnancy is like saying we cant understand puberty, it dont make sense.
Pregnancy is extremely normal and is something all healthy women will experiance, so humanity studied to for thousand of year to reduce the hardship and understand it.

Like i said, if and average joe like me can understand somethings as abstract and complex as astrophysics and thermodynamics there is no reason to not be able to understand pregnancy.

Also, i'm not rilled up. I'm just writing casualy and explaining things, because more and more people start to believe this weird things that pregnancy is some mystic things super hard to understand. And this is not a good thing to believe, because if men start to believe it then more and more of them will act as if they couldn't do anythings to help their wife.

 

[Ucluk4]

Without a doubt this is stupid drama that stems from an awkward MC and a vindictive woman.

However, a lot of hate is being thrown towards the wife, but it doesn’t change what MC said was ridiculously insensitive and hurtful. Firstly, she’s the one who was experiencing all these tough symptoms and bearing through it for the sake of their family. Yet he suggested for her to abandon the child which insults and disregards her dedication to the family and their bond/love in making this child. Secondly, motherhood is without a doubt a difficult time and with all the hormones and changes it does to the body, the husband could never understand even half of what she is experiencing so of course she’d be irritated he could casually say what he said when she’s holding on this much.

As an observer he made a rash suggestion. This is a difference in perspective that is brought forth by gender where the woman was struggling to bring a child to the world and the husband can only watch and try his best to be supportive. Without clearing up the misunderstanding after all these years of course things would get pretty awful, although her way of handling it is super extreme and comically over the top since all this manga wants to do for now is promote suffering.

The other kid and the glasses mom is a strange mix to push plot. Personally, seeing things progress without outside influence in the family would be more interesting but im still interested to see how things play out.

for 13 freaking yeah no way and have these stupid rule, she awful person and wtf the husband not divorce her long long ago

 

[Guromi95]

I kinda have to disagree with the comments saying abortion should come from the mother
It should come from any party that feels unsure about having a child, and then be discussed thoroughly to not have any regrets later on

Yes, the mother is the one bearing the child, and the one that will have to give birth to it... But the father is also part of the family, and depending on the situation (money, household, relationship between them, age...), the father might not feel ready to take care of a child

A child can literally make or break a family, and giving birth to a child in a bad environment may ruin its life too

Yes, the mother can be mad at the father for suggesting that, but the problem in that story is that she never even tried to hear his opinion, and completely separated from him for at least 5 years (well, not exactly since he's still the one who has to pay money for them supposedly, since it seems like he's the only one working)

 

[whotookmyuser]

Can this woman stop trying to stick her nose into this married man's business? Like, refer him to a therapist or something.
He needs guy friends to talk to about this.
It weirds me out how attached she is to this man, who she barely knows.

If his wife hates him so much she should divorce him. Then kiddo can decide which parent she wants to live with.

 

[BakedBanana]

"You must never, ever --- talk about killing your own child!" (Page 2)

lol

 

[danbellucci]

wtf that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
Why would she want to raise her child for 13 years in a house where for the entire child's life , the child isn't allowed to interact with her father? surely it would be better for the child and less stressful for her just to divorce her husband.

Also if that's the reason obviously he wouldn't forget it !! You expect me to believe he said "we should abort our baby" and the next day a line of tape appeared in the house and he as to not cross the line , then he just one day forgets why the tape is there? No. That's not how it works. every time you saw the tape you'd remember what caused the tape to be put up.

Also, seriously? He suggested killing their unborn child AFTER THEY HAD ALREADY NAMED HER and after the wife clearly wanted her and was excited to have a girl, because he felt bad for his wife having strong morning sickness?
Seriously who kills their unborn child just because they have morning sickness ? At least make it a bit more reasonable like maybe the wife had medical problems from some other preexisting condition or treatment like cancer that made getting pregnant more risky. But morning sickness?
What the fuck? And why is that bimbo woman crying listening to the story as though that's not a bizarre freakshow kind of thinking.
This author doesn't know how to write plausible characters at all.
I bet the rest of this manga is going to be a trainwreck but I'm going to read it a bit more because I want to see why one of the volume covers as a a woman with her mouth wide open looking like she's making a crying hentai faice

 

[danbellucci]

At least it has based chad anti-abortion aka anti-baby-murder morals.