Sonna Kazoku nara Sutechaeba? - Vol. 3 Ch. 19

[MiguelH224]

it's not that bad tbh. it's not like their relationship is irreparable. they just need a good family councelling/guidance so they'd both realize their shortcomings, wife being all-assuming and husband being extremely passive, and hopefully mend it to the right direction. you'd also have to consider the child's wellbeing when you decide for divorce. no child is deserving to bear the agony of a broken family. that route could've probably possibly done sooner if they didn't have a child. i hope it goes well.

This is honestly one of the worst takes I've read on here, are you really downplaying mental abuse? Yes it's true that the child's well-being is important here, but even SHE knows how bad her mother is and how much she is destroying her father on the inside


Have you noticed how she actually feels more comfortable talking to her father about stuff? When was the last time she went to her mom about personal issues?? Especially with how she goes about shit in the worst possible way?


The wife is horrible and the divorce needs to happen for both the sake of the father and Ichika

 

[MiguelH224]

He'll probably say the same even after Sensei fucks his wife

If that happens then so be it, Hikaru's mom is on standby and willing

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

If that happens then so be it, Hikaru's mom is on standby and willing

It seems unlikely she'll cheat, since she's already gotten the chance with some other guy, and she straight up roasted him, despite having invited him to the museum with her. It really looks like the very idea of sex, and sexual relationships gross her out.

 

[MiguelH224]

It seems unlikely she'll cheat, since she's already gotten the chance with some other guy, and she straight up roasted him, despite having invited him to the museum with her. It really looks like the very idea of sex, and sexual relationships gross her out.

Given the father, sex is the last thing on his mind, what he truly needs and would want is actual love


Anyone who went thru mental abuse for that long wouldn't want anything else....other than deleting themselves of course

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

Given the father, sex is the last thing on his mind, what he truly needs and would want is actual love


Anyone who went thru mental abuse for that long wouldn't want anything else....other than deleting themselves of course

I'm very confused by this response. I'm talking about the psycho bitch wife cheating on MC. It seems unlikely since she's reacted so badly to any mention of sex by basically everyone so far. She went to a museum with some other guy, and when he tried to invite her to a hotel, she ripped into him. And when the teacher implied she should maybe have sex with her husband, she turned beet red and put on her signature seethe face.

The only path the story's laid out to make the cheating possible is for the teacher to try convincing her that it's normal for wives to have affairs, and that it's good for the kid, somehow.

 

[ysil69]

I really want Ichiko to tell off the teacher now. Her going "can you please stop meddling in my family? You're wrong about everything you think you know." Deadpan right to his face.

 

[Robfaw]

Alright wasn't sure last chapter but now I'm disillusioned with sensei. He's just pushing his worldview without even understanding the situation.

I don't really agree with the Dad's outlook here. That's a great way to handle strangers but when the person spewing nonsense is a teacher in your kid's school I think you need to challenge it a bit. That said the way he explained it to Ichika was great. If he got over some of that trauma he'd make a great teacher himself.

 

[Outflanks10]

That was kinda of a wholesome ending, they all realise that they are all troubled and a little broken.
And its seems like they have come to terms that they need to work on themselves as a family.
But who knows how things will turn out in the next chapter, this is a wild ride after all.

Thanks everyone at Senko-san's Abode for the translation

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

That was kinda of a wholesome ending, they all realise that they are all troubled and a little broken.
And its seems like they have come to terms that they need to work on themselves as a family.
But who knows how things will turn out in the next chapter, this is a wild ride after all.

Thanks everyone at Senko-san's Abode for the translation

How did you get that from the ending?

 

[Outflanks10]

How did you get that from the ending?

I'm just being hopeful, I really don't want this to get messier that it already is.

 

[MewOne]

Wait. . . . Hol on. Are we . . . . In the end of this arc?

 

[pokefairy]

I want Ogino dead. I want him dead and buried and for maggots to eat his tiny brain (sorry it's not a very impressive meal, maggots) I need him to get beat

 

[TaKoCuh]

I'm just reading this because I hope there will be NTR eventually. That is all.

Its gonna be a double NTR situation that'll cancel out and then they'll be happy again

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

Its gonna be a double NTR situation that'll cancel out and then they'll be happy again

Nobody will be happy no matter what happens. Imagine hooking up with a single mom e-thot with a fear of responsibility and being "happy". Not even in anime land does that happen.

 

[Wachtail]

Wow that was some extreme level-headedness by the dad, though I would've love for Ichika to just punch her homeroom teacher ballsacks.
Now what though? Do both parents know what the fuck to do? Sure seems like the dad knows, and wants to make this relations better. But the mum still seems like a stuck-up psychopath.
And I wonder how will the single mum react seeing the trash wife.
Thanks for the chapter!

 

[silverpetricof]

Ichika is such a good character I swear.

Thank you for the translation.

 

[Miv]

He'll probably say the same even after Sensei fucks his wife

This would probably reflect much worse on his wife and Sensei rather than him, he'd only seem undignified once he said such a thing after to it happening.

 

[Ladmxt]

If the counselling would've been genuine and the suggestion came through her own violation I would've just barely given it a pass, but that's not the case since she's just trying to follow what the teacher said (who is playing clear favourites in the dispute, while he has no clue what's going on)

oh no you'd be surprised on how difficult it is to properly start mental health/family councelling. you'd atleast need to have proper self-awarness to realize that you need one. i'd expect the conselling to be suggested by the most logical not emotional person here, but here we are still at an impasse.

Also it's not him being passive at this point anymore, he's just broken and done, which is no surprise

he is passive and broken and done. and true, very unsurprising.

Yeah no fuck that. Growing up in an environment where one partner regularly abuses the other is also very very bad. Imagine watching your father being psychologically tortured into complete submission. This is genuinely terrible.

true, this is a tunnel vision on my part.

This is honestly one of the worst takes I've read on here, are you really downplaying mental abuse?

elaborate.

Have you noticed how she actually feels more comfortable talking to her father about stuff? When was the last time she went to her mom about personal issues?? Especially with how she goes about shit in the worst possible way?

a person driven by logic vs a person driven by emotion.
also the wife unreasonably overreacts to everything that's why.

The wife is horrible and the divorce needs to happen for both the sake of the father and Ichika

everyone sucks ass here, man. sure i agree that the wife is horrible, but the husband is no saint either. the mother being mentally unstable causing mental distress to the father and the father lacking the proper understanding and support which is ultimately worsening his wife's mental integrity (im pretty sure he's aware that his wife is mentally ill by now). you cant really blame just one side here tbh. bot side are in the wrong in the same time.

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i've been with a mentally unstable person before and it has been my part to be understanding, because i know and understand what im getting myself into. eventually i lost all patience and ended the relationship. they were wrong, but they're in no means a bad person. not saying the manga is the same, but you get the gist.

this couldve been resolved if they'd set their ego aside(especially the wife) and have a proper communication plus a proper mediator not some hot milf in the area to be completely honest. although i wont blame reitaro if he switch

also fuck that dog teacher.

 

[Ninoren]

@Ladmxt , you only keep talking about HER mental health about how only SHE is unstable, but you wouldn't believe it that also goes for guys 😐

He is mentally FAR worse of than her, she at least had her daughter around in order to not be alone, but he was literally isolated in his own home, thrown into a small storage room sleeping on boxes.

Honestly don't see where you're getting her defence o_o Mental Health also doesn't excuse torturing another human, sure it does play a factor, but ultimately it doesn't excuse it <_<

 

[MiguelH224]

@Ladmxt , you only keep talking about HER mental health about how only SHE is unstable, but you wouldn't believe it that also goes for guys 😐

He is mentally FAR worse of than her, she at least had her daughter around in order to not be alone, but he was literally isolated in his own home, thrown into a small storage room sleeping on boxes.

Honestly don't see where you're getting her defence o_o Mental Health also doesn't excuse torturing another human, sure it does play a factor, but ultimately it doesn't excuse it <_<

Literal victim blaming, that's all I see from that person's comments. It's like it didn't ever occur to him/her that SHE is the literal reason he's in this current state