I guess it's a little late to ask but why is the MC trying to piss her off? I'd assume so she doesn't get involved with him again and die like she did in her past life but that seems like a weird way to go about it.
@Boomburst Indeed, though I think it's also worth noting that those instances weren't going against the express wishes of the person/people he cared about that had been effected by the target of his anger. There's also the adopted son of the Snow family, whom he just kind of got "lucky" about him being a douche. If Nie Li ever has some actual character development (rather than merely reveals) he might do well to get over his snap judgements and look to figure out ways to help others not be dicks (though it sounds like he'll get "lucky" and have it work out relatively well in this case... go, go omnipotent author powers!).