Well, I understand that some people are just so kind that they're approaching naivety boundary. But it's for this reason that they need someone who's firm to actually stop them from doing whatever delusional they're having. I'm not saying that these people need to set their priority straight. Who are her priority? Once she's able to say for sure those priorities are definitely secured, then maybe she can wander off to side objectives that DO NOT harm or risk of lowering the chance of those priorities being harmed. It's amazing how many people, including real life people, undermine butterfly effects and consequences so much.