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Masochistic DomsOut of curiosity, which six where you thinking of?
Like off the top of my head I can think of kinda 5ish broad motivations for domming:
1. Sadism, obviously.
2. Desire to nurture someone/maternal instinct (mommy)
3. Desire to gain control over someone (brat tamer)
4. Desire to exercise control over someone (mistress)
5. Desire to please a partner (service dommes, some findommes)
But all of them have a bunch of subtypes and hybrids. Like, pet ownership can very easily be a combination of 2, 3, and 4. Fortunately it never involves 1, because hurting animals is wrong. Meanwhile, people who are only interested in 3 are massive teases but definitely exist, and a sadist who wants to fuck with your head is quite different from a sadist who wants to kick you in the shins.
And then there are people whose motivations don't really fit into any of those categories.
So I'm really curious how you came to '6'.
Sadistic Doms
Dominant bottoms
Dominant tops
Daddy/Mommy
Master/Mistress
I forgot about Brat tamers and Owners
Dominant doesn't mean someone who always gives. It's about how they're the one controlling the play. Submissives like to be ordered around and not have control over the situation while Dominants like to be in control.
Giving/Receiving is different from Dominant/Submissive. Sadism and Masochism is also not bound to Dominance and Submission. There are also Submissive tops and Submissive Sadists which are one hell of a companion.
A Dominant Masochist is one hell of a companion. Those fuckers scare me