This. He got played like a fucking fiddle lol. Dean gave him 2 options but both were for the same purpose. He practicely said
"i will either force you to go (short version) or i will mentally torture and traumatize you to the point that you will beg me to go (long but more efective version since now he is also full of bloodlust and a more useful soldier. Seems like even readers fell for it lol)."
No idea why people praising this asshole other then for being a master manipulator
It heavily depends on your perspective.
War is cruel like that... and there never was a good option.
From the old mans perspective, and the country itself they did nothing wrong.
He is doing his duty when trying to convince MC to try and save as meany people as possible.
And he did a good job doing so.
Its a perfect example of the need of the meany outweighing the need of the few.
he is aware from the death toll, and the fact it was effectively a race war.
So should they lose, MC would suffer and probably die anyway because of his lack of combat experience.
MC might not be a countryman who was unjustly drafted,which they became aware of eventually.
But hindsight proves the actions of the old man was right,even if it was
extremely underhanded.
From MC´s perspective its a nightmare regardless as he was drafted to fight for something he does not care about.
(until he made friends with the people around him. )
The issue however, is that even if he choose to not join the fight it would come to him.
The dragons would not care about his nationality had he avoided the war, only about the fact he is human.
its is indeed very manipulative to subject him to the death toll of war, but the only way he had to avoid this would have been to never make any personal relations and just keep his head in the sand.
And the lack of human interactions would drive him mad eventually anyway.
Avoiding the war would have made things for everyone including the MC.
Assuming he deserted and ran from the fight nothing would have changed as we have multiple times his party more or less ended the war on their own.
Overall its a perfectly sombre depiction of the horrors of war.