I get it. Treating your family--your parents and siblings--well is a good thing. But it's not a good thing to ignore yourself. Good parents will not oblige you to pamper them with luxury. They're happy enough that you can take care of yourself. What am I saying, when I'm also a breadwinner like him lol. At least I'm in a better situation; my family never demanded from me, I just really wanted a better life for them as well, despite it being difficult.