@DevilSaint:
i don't know how he can ask her to just write a WHOLE NOTEBOOK WORTH OF MATERİAL in a date
Fair, although it didn't seem to stop him getting much more unreasonable things out her up 'till now. And...
plus he can just make her do it with force its a 100% that she'll do it with no questions asked and as fast as she can do
No. There is no such guarantee, that's dumb. Force is a high-risk approach here: She might
stop being compliant (I mean, heck, she's been totally oblivious to lethal danger before now, why start when the threats are made), she might have a nervous breakdown and be unable to write, she might attempt to and succeed at escaping/signaling for help/otherwise resisting...
By the way,i think the reason he destroyed the relic was because he can't control it and for him it's too dangerous for it to be on the hands of the military which wants to kill him and take his relics,not for the girl.
I don't see what that has to do with the merits of being violent/non-violent here, unless you mean he's acting this way because he tends more towards just being an asshole, in which case I agree.