We Did Not Date - Ch. 11

[MangaDex]

 

[FredFriendly]

Su-ah really is acting like a snotty bitch. She jumps to her own conclusions without properly communicating. I feel bad for Hoobeom who looked shocked when the bitch basically told him to go fuck himself and never talk to her again. She didn't even thank him for the FREE tattoo.

 

[GlacialRift]

poor Su-ah I feel so bad for her. she reached out and he shut the door in her face. like she literally said she’s sad they drifted apart and he told her that it doesn’t matter anymore like wow she’s baring her feelings to you man. and the audience knows he’s been thinking about her too so why be so cold??

 

[sabd]

the duality of man in the two prior comments

 

[Sicatuyet]

@sabd I’ve never laughed so hard in my life omg

 

[moniru]

Im with su ah
She is clearly want to reconnect.
But he answer her with a "no" .
Basically, denying his feeling like when the bro asked him in the car

 

[meijune]

we went from "im so angry at him" to tattoo goo. i couldn't help but snort seeing "tattoo goo" as the panel right after such a frustrating moment HAHA

 

[Macarol]

I feel sorry for Su-ah. She basically showed her emotions to him. But, he simply brushed her off with a cold "no". She doesn't know what he's been through all these years. It isn't wrong that she wants to know what happened to someone who used to be very close to her, why they drifted apart and how he felt about it.

 

[merakisz]

i mean, you never know what he went through in those years - maybe he has his reasons to act like that.

 

[darara]

To be honest, after that cliffhanger I expected some third wheel action. Maybe the next chapter.

 

[FredFriendly]

I know I'll be talking to a brick wall here, but... Su-ah really has seriously jumped to erroneous conclusions all on her own. She has equated not wanting to talk about or be reminded of the past as the same as not wanting to be on the same or better terms going forward. Hoobeom was quite right in everything he said. You can't change the past and you feel sad that you can't. That's not being harsh, that's being realistic. He did not "brush her off" or answer her with a "no". He simply matter-of-factly answered her questions. Did Su-ah ask him if he wanted to continue to see her, even just as a friend? Nope. No need to. She was (in her feeble mind) able to discern that he had no interest in her because he did not want to talk about or be reminded of the past. Cold? Give the guy a break, bitch. He's giving you a tattoo for free and he's doing it right now. It's an intense process that requires intense concentration. Let him do his work and stop trying to get him to confess his love to you while he's working on your tattoo. Is that tattoo itself not enough of a sign for you how he feels about you? You really do seem awfully dumb. Really, really cute but awfully dumb.

 

[mjreads]

Hmmm....he was quite rude actually? I mean Su-ah too was a little childish but she took great trouble to ask him actually. But the communication should've been better.

 

[princeGhirahim]

suah was like damn it kinda sucks that we're not close anymore and he was like well it is what it is lmao it def takes courage to confront someone abt ur relationship w them in the past so it makes sense that suah felt kind of embarrassed when he was seemed indifferent abt it nd reacted emotionally esp since she didnt get closure w him and he suddenly appeared in her life again. from his reaction she got the impression that he didnt rly want to engage w her afterwards and i feel bad bc she literally admits in this chapter that she was being delusional/expecting too much even though i dont think she was bc in prev chapters it was shown that he harbors similar feelings that suah had so im not sure why his response was distant

thanks for updating this chapter so fast!!

 

[SuzxGD]

Damn bro chill lmAo thanks for the update!!!

 

[sheisthestars]

im dying for the next update su ah i feel u 🥺

 

[FredFriendly]

Rude? Distant? Give me a break. A comment elsewhere put it very susccintly:

It wasn't rude. Just not sugarcoated. What he said was the truth. Nothing more, nothing less

 

[mimicking]

Tbh i agree with part of both sides of the argument. Hoobeom simply didnt sugarcoat his words, but it can easily be interpreted as cold and distant towards suah relative to how she tried get over the past by asking him about it.

The way she went about it wasnt the greatest, but i think its respectable that she tried. The fact she brought up during her tattoo session wasnt quite appropriate (TPO: time, place, location), but at the same time, she knows she doesnt have a reason ti meet him outside of this tattoo process. She probably couldve talked about it after the whole 5 hour process, but its really easy for emotions to cloud our judgement in the moment.

While im personally not a fan of both suah and hoobeom's actions, i can understand why they act the way they do. Its not easy knowing how to deal worh your emotions and with the important people in your life when you dont have an objective/overarching view of the story as a reader would

 

[Nikoko]

Ok great, now move on! Just end the story here! Best end for everyone!

 

[blazing_daze]

Giving you ointment so your tattoo doesn’t get infected isn’t a “misunderstanding” its his fucking job 8D
This is the logic of a 29 year old woman ?

He agreed with her that it as sad, but it was also in the past. Its not his fault that he moved on and she didn't. She didn't even ask "do you want to be friends again" she made an assumption because she didn't like his answers. Hoobeom can't read your damn mind lady. She is a journalist for a living but can't communicate herself well ? yikes

 

[wintermilktea]

Oooooh i didn't expect the conversation to be so realistic, i think i'm really going to like this manhwa

The people getting so mad at Suah are making me laugh tho. I mean, you don't think you'd do the same in that moment? Especially when it took a lot of courage to even ask that type of question. Not saying she didn't jump to conclusions (she def did, and she was obviously expecting something more which is why we're here) but that's human of her.