She definitely has a cnc kink haha. Well, the thing is that she wants the responsibility to be taken away from her. She wants it a lot, but she also feels apprehension about it, due to her morals and shyness, and she can't help but shun him away and restrain him. If he is strong enough, she can have her cake and eat it. It would be just how it is because Qinxi forced her, and she would enjoy what she's denying herself. So she's setting the man to the task.