Yea agreed, In fact since I already stated that MC needs to become a child trauma therapist himself b4 even being able to help these 2, I think the biggest way to have helped them would NOT be to do what he's doing right now aka somewhat forcing them to be friends, he imo should have gotten the brother to make ACTUAL friend connection aka maybe introduce the brother to become friends with MC's friend, having another dude who knows whats going on and could be a pillar for lil bro would probably help ALOT MORE then trying to force both siblings to have a relationship again when Wife doesn't even remember him NOR wants tooShe's crashing out toward the wrong person, but as usual, this story does portray trauma in a way that feels authentic and satisfying.
The things she's been saying are gonna hurt like hell once this trauma block/repression gets addressed. I don't think it's gonna happen for a while; Yeonwoo's right in that she (hell, both of them) need a more comprehensive support system than just each other-the fact that he's trying to solve the issue entirely on his own and all the ways it's not panning out well illustrates that-but fuck sake, these literal CHILDREN need THERAPY first!
No one ever said they were gonna get therapy; they need therapy.everyone going on about therapy in fucking korea must have lost their god damned mind lol
there's a reason kids are dropping like flies over there
You are putting too much blame on him. He started really breaking free from his trauma when he was forced to think about it again and reconsider how it affects him and his relationships, struggling through is what worked for him so it's a natural assumption that it would work for others. Add to that the fact that professional therapy effectively doesn't exist in his culture and he has almost no way to know that what he is doing is the wrong approach.Yea agreed, In fact since I already stated that MC needs to become a child trauma therapist himself b4 even being able to help these 2, I think the biggest way to have helped them would NOT be to do what he's doing right now aka somewhat forcing them to be friends, he imo should have gotten the brother to make ACTUAL friend connection aka maybe introduce the brother to become friends with MC's friend, having another dude who knows whats going on and could be a pillar for lil bro would probably help ALOT MORE then trying to force both siblings to have a relationship again when Wife doesn't even remember him NOR wants too
What MC is doing is once again equivalent to forcing Wife to eat her veggies again when that's a big source of her trauma except this time MC isn't ignorant in not knowing this is trauma but instead just a dumbass in thinking that he has the skills to navigate/fix this alone which he doesn't![]()