@NotYourFuta:
That really
is that far off, from this, though XD The scenario you're comparing is fundamentally very different in the social rules of men? Being "gross"
around each other is A-ok for a good subset of guys (especially of a certain age), but doing sexual things
with each other is
strictly verboten. The grody-er specimens of men may think it's okay to casually jack off in the presence of others, but casual touching of
other men? I've never even once seen or heard of anyone doing anything like that, among straight men. (Again, I'm sure it's happened somewhere, but...)
And that's maybe for the best, really; if bro-culture social rules said that was "okay", that would almost certainly just end in a bunch of molestation, honestly.
I mean, there's maybe some special exceptions for sufficiently dumb things done under the influence of alcohol in a frat-boy-ish party environment, I think, but only under such circumstances where basically all social rules are permitted to be broken if one can make out that it's funny (much more for ill than good, see "molestation," above).
Sorry, this got dark real fast XD