Yowa Yowa Sensei - Vol. 4 Ch. 35 - Yowayowa's Radio Taiso

[drakenation]

NO IT FUCKING WONT. STOP IT. Stop with that "JUST IMPROVE YOURSELF" and it will happen. I lost 100's of pounds, got a 6 pack, a good job, I have over 2000+ hours of CBT therapy and 100's of thought journals... and in 4 years and 25000+ attempts I couldn't even get a single date, every single person within 20km rejected me, literally every person on Bumble and Tinder with all the paid premium benefits. IT WONT HAPPEN. You might get lucky, but it WONT JUST HAPPEN EVENTUALLY IT WONT! IT FUCKING WONT JUST HAPPEN. Over 40% of men have never fucking ONCE been on a date or even have friends. IT DOESN'T HAPPEN. Not anymore... not in 2024.

YOU NEED TO LEARN THIS NOW!!!! IT WONT JUST HAPPEN EVENTUALLY. IT FUCKING WONT EVER JUST HAPPEN. YOU DON'T GET IT. IT WILL NEVER "JUST HAPPEN", YOU DON'T JUST "MEET THE RIGHT PERSON AND FEEL A CLICK". THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN ANYMORE. YOU NEED TO LEARN THIS NOW... before you turn 35

Maybe if you stopped treating Cock and Ball Torture as therapy you'd find some women who can vibe with you.

Btw, sorry for the joke about a serious topic, but I just couldn't help it. I had a girlfriend in the past, after hundreds of rejections online, and what you said is very true. It's already plenty hard to get a GF if you're constantly trying, but if you're not even looking for someone, there's absolutely no chance you'll just randomly meet someone and date them.
Life's not a manga, guys. Convenient things like that don't happen.

personnaly i think you don't need to have a 6pack, just be fit enough tl prevent illness, improving to me is both mental and physical like not looking down on yourself and being more disciplined in what you do in life, as i have no love experience aside from my friends/family ones, i can't say how to get girls, it's not impossible for it to happen, i'm not sure hook up sites/apps but going out to nice places from time to time can be a good start, the world is big anything can happen, nothing can be 100% impossible but trying in ways that doesn't bother you nor others will eventually not make you a loner
well that's my take on it

Best way to find a partner is by talking to someone in person. If you have an acquaintance who can introduce you to someone, that's pretty much the best possible case, otherwise just go where the women are and strike some conversation with them. Dance lessons for paired dances are always a good option, maybe some volunteering work, or just about any hobby with a decent genre mix.
If you don't mind, you can also go to nightclubs and the like as well, and try to flirt as best as you can.

It's that's too much for someone, they can always try online, but it's absolutely a shit show, specially if you're not traditionally good looking (like an instagram male model). Going months or years without a single match is not uncommon.

 

[kingarthur020500]

What's going to happen when she has children?

 

[EntDraw]

What's going to happen when she has children?

Prob will inherit nothing from her cuz her genes are also Yowayowa

 

[Junomano]

Maybe if you stopped treating Cock and Ball Torture as therapy you'd find some women who can vibe with you.

Btw, sorry for the joke about a serious topic, but I just couldn't help it. I had a girlfriend in the past, after hundreds of rejections online, and what you said is very true. It's already plenty hard to get a GF if you're constantly trying, but if you're not even looking for someone, there's absolutely no chance you'll just randomly meet someone and date them.
Life's not a manga, guys. Convenient things like that don't happen.

Best way to find a partner is by talking to someone in person. If you have an acquaintance who can introduce you to someone, that's pretty much the best possible case, otherwise just go where the women are and strike some conversation with them. Dance lessons for paired dances are always a good option, maybe some volunteering work, or just about any hobby with a decent genre mix.
If you don't mind, you can also go to nightclubs and the like as well, and try to flirt as best as you can.

It's that's too much for someone, they can always try online, but it's absolutely a shit show, specially if you're not traditionally good looking (like an instagram male model). Going months or years without a single match is not uncommon.

pretty much what i had in mind when i said to go out, i'm not sure about meeting decent girls in a nightclub but going to some standard public places is already a nice start, a park/library/beach/pool/restaurent,... where you can also feel confortable

 

[Junomano]

What's going to happen when she has children?

if you juge that she has good character and is serious you can go for it, everyone can make mistakes with partners when young, if the arrival of the baby made you a better person from the experience then it's all good

 

[zerio]

I want to be stamped by sensei too