Marl has a point. You can cope with kindness and faithfulness but whats the endgame here? She can't leave, she can't be free. They're fucking so much the plaster is flying off the walls and she's just stuck there in the middle of it as the untouchable, having to endure it all. Kindness like that even if it comes from a place of consideration can quickly become some ugly abusive cruelty. There's only one proper way out of this if things got this far.