You see internet people, the MMC HAS to be spineless, crazy, or awkward in one way or another. Whether it is a Abe-created pyramid or not, the audience-insert must be incredibly cool, yet consciously aware they are weird. Much like Romantic Killer does with FMC. They know people want this.
At some point, these mangas will make readers so horny they will take be sick of seeing it, take ANYONE, and make their relationship into a fantasy despite flaws….. exactly as planned.
Eventually, donning the tinfoil hat will make you gain perspective, lads.