That mom is still such an arrogant . . . I mean, clearly there's some kind of end run around her little pronouncement, but what she's saying is "I've made sure the likes of you can't protect my daughter, and by the way my condition for dating is that you can protect my daughter."
Not sure just how racist she is, because although clearly she doesn't think anyone who isn't a witch is a real person who should get to make their own decisions about anything, she ALSO doesn't think that about her own daughter, so maybe it's just generalized "All the power and decisions in the world should belong to me". But I can't say I'm fond of her.
For once,
just this once, I don't think the chairman is totally off-base here. It's not Yage's fault that the Werewolf Village has messed up. The larger issue is bullying and organizational trust, not police jurisdiction, but withholding the drugs makes sense. The witches are more tolerant about Xing Lan than most werewolves, which we couldn't be sure about until recently. The chairman might not have allowed Xing Lan to be raised as well as she was, but if the village protected Xing Lan and didn't hide her out of
their racism, cops wouldn't have had leverage anyhow. The village hasn't been trusted to provide warriors for a while, and forcing werewolves to only use their limited supply of medicine for emergencies is a forceful but rather benign trade restriction. The politics works (even if I disagree with the simplistic justification) until we consider Yage who was too young to be culpable and didn't do anything worth the collective punishment.
Witches are physically weak and Yage had a difficult,
and at worst an unfairly or excessively difficult combat test. Since Yage was allowed to get this far, it would be contradictory for an institutionalist like the chairman to be openly arbitrary here. If Yage can make an operational argument (she's useful, witches haven't worked with warriors recently) and a loyalty argument (her interests align with her girlfriend and Xing Lan), it would hurt the chairman's face to do worse than delay Yage getting an exemption for transformation medicine or forcing her to cut off the village for now (petty, but Yage isn't aligned with them anyhow). Yage can do without the drug so she's in the clear on all counts.
Mom isn't acting racist, just many other kinds of narrow-minded.