Imasara desu ga, Osananajimi o Suki ni Natte Shimaimashita - Ch. 43 - The Pride of the Lecturing Girls

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I really really wish mangakas would just hit the audience hard with real life. he should have told all of them to eff off. It's not your issue girls, you don't have the moral or civil authority to involve yourselves with this
This is real life. REAL LIFE IN JAPAN.
Yes, Japanese people are SO THUS submissive and obedient. There is a reason why Yami is the "bad and rebel girl" for the horrible sin of have adolescent sex with her boyfriend she loved so much.
 
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Far as I know, I've never accused folks who disagree w/ me of lacking reading comprehension. The opposite, I've usually tried to acknowledge that they're just coming at this from a different perspective. As to sticking to the text, that's just standard close reading.
Yes, I said it before, along other posters, you represents the Hikari-Eriri perspective who Maruto is precisely criticizing both in this work and in Saekano before. You represents the shoujo fangirls who he is actively criticizing (in his works, in his interviews, tweets, statements...) and for that I am saying you need have media literacy or at least start to watch/read earlier Maruto works to understand his position or at least improve your perspective pro-Hikari/Eriri.
You can't win the persuasion game by telling everyone who disagrees with you that they have no reading comprehension. You just signify to them that it's not worth their time to engage with you.
False. I have had disagreements with @GennArc or @Rafalga, for example, and I have never accused them for don´t have reading comprehension. I reserve that kind of criticizes for the people who are defending things so ridicuously awful like Hikari ghosting and avoiding Yuu in this chapter, as I feared in previous threads´ comments.
Which is still priortizing Hikari over Aya, where what Aya wants is to be the priority.
Of course. Again, one of the few things we were agreed is Yuu always choosing Hikari over Aya and Aya being aware from this and one of her big fears. Is precisely see Yuu choosing Hikari over her, even if is she who is ordering explicitily him to do exactly that, the reason why she gets mad in chapter 40.
One of the few things I truely blame Yuu is he didn´t manage to avoid fully express to Ayami the sensation of "you are the plan B because Hikari friendzoned me". Even if, IMO, Ayami reached Yuu loved her more than Hikari during the last months of their relationship, seeing how both are progresively forgetting Hikari during chapters 27-29.
And yes, this implies Ayami feels self-guilty, she knows she is who launched the hurted Yuu to return to the Hikari´s arms, to a Hikari who is now finally romantically interested on him.
That's my point - Yuu talking to Haru does not mean Yuu is up for a direct confrontation with Hikari.
Exactly, CONFRONTATION. Yuu is already very uncomfortable, upset and hurt all the times Haru lectures him, as a little kid lectured by his mother, he acts basically how if he feels this is a punishment he deserves. All this in a public site where he can have at least the minimum security Haru cannot punch him as Yami and Hikari did it before.
A boy doesn´t want victim of violence again after being mistreated twice by the two girls of his life? "Meh, is because he is spineless, secure". So, my mysandria accusations are valid.
He is in his perfect right to avoid CONFRONTATION and ask Hikari for a civilizated CONVERSATION as the mature teenagers they supposely who are, instead have to endure more insults and physical aggresions from her. Even if he is still uncomfortable talking about this, but he is disposed to respond all the Hikari questions because he thinks, and he is right, is his duty as friend and love interest who confessed to her.
So, is very logical he is trying to look her outside her house or waiting for the visit she promised to Yuu mom.
It's reasonable for me (& other readers) to interpret this as a character flaw given how it backfires on Yuu.
Of course. I didn´t deny it, and as me and other posters said it, we think this is part from the self-despise of Maruto about himself being a submissive man who needs being between the sword and the wall to takes the lead actively, over all in romance, about himself being a submissive man who responds to the voice of his dommy girl as a dog who follows her female owner. This is a feature shared by every his male MC, and inherited by Yuu Izumi in Shikimori-san.
The point of Maruto is this character feature is not automatically bad if the submissive boy finds a dominant girl really compatible with him and able to really understand him. Is precisely how she knows so well the real Yuu the reason why Yami mental-breakdowns in chapter 40 when Yuu is leaving the room to find Hikari.
In a few words, Maruto Fumiaki and Keigo Maki authoral intent is represent positively female domination and role reversal from a masculine point of view, but without denying its disadvantages.
Your mysandria falls in the fact of you expecting Yuu will became magically an alpha male by magic´s art. Even more when he was punched and thrown away when he decided finally be proactive for once.
That doesn't make Hikari characteristically passive, just passive w.r.t romance
So, other thing she shares with Yuu. He doesn´t seem being passive in non-romantic fields by the few things we saw from him, for e.g. how Seki describes how he fixed her bicycle in chapter 12.4 where she talks with her friend about "Yuu-senpai". Is not coincidence the most decided and "masculine" Yuu is precisely the heartbroken Yuu who renounced to romance because he was living his grief for Yami break-up in the first Hikari chapters.
And after chapter 5 she takes their advice and invited him to the amusement park and the school festival.
She taked only the most surface part of their advices and as you saw, that was enough to re-conquer Yuu again and give him hopes to being finally reciprocated by Hikari -and he was-.
Hikari had months and months of opportunities lost and she was unable to confess or at least takes the lead actively even with Yuu´s ex-girlfriend counsels and help, from Carnival in amusement park until September cultural festival.
 
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You represents the shoujo fangirls who he is actively criticizing
Have you noticed that in at least half the quotes that follow you loosely agree w/ the argument I actually made & then launch into an argument against your strawman "shoujo fan girl"?

. I have had disagreements with @GennArc or @Rafalga, for example, and I have never accused them for don´t have reading comprehension.
That's b/c you think their views on Yuu are broadly in line w/ yours.

ask Hikari for a civilizated CONVERSATION
Vague apologies that leave room for interpretation are not an explicit ask for a conversation.

She taked only the most surface part of their advices
Sure but she did take it. Could she have been more proactive? Absolutely, but she also wasn't putting distance between her and Yuu while hoping he'd fall for her.
 
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Did I miss something? Why is everyone going at Yuu's throat like he's evil and the mastermind behind all this drama? I just recall him getting forcefully kissed, Hikari misunderstanding it, then when he goes to confess he gets pushed over because he didn't tell her about the kiss.

I don't see why he needed to tell Hikari about the kiss. He didn't kiss Yami, she kissed him. From my point of view he probably didn't register that he did anything wrong, because he didn't, Yami did. Furthermore if we're still going to blame him despite it not being his fault, couldn't we also blame Hikari for not just asking him about the kiss?

That's why again I ask, did I miss something? Like did I accidentally miss Yuu trying to cover up the kiss ever happening? That's the only way all this hate towards him would make sense to me, because if that is the case I'd hate him too. Or maybe I should just re-read the last few chapters carefully lol.
 
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Have you noticed that in at least half the quotes that follow you loosely agree w/ the argument I actually made & then launch into an argument against your strawman "shoujo fan girl"?
Because your points is criticize Yuu for things who are not really his fault, or, in any case, are a basic part of his personality -who Hikari should known better-, and anyway, they are things shared with Hikari, she is not more proactive than him, and of course, is this submissive personality the reason why Yami is so interested in both. I call you shoujo fan girl precisely because both you and Hikari are expecting Yuu become an alpha male by magic´s art.
That is the reason why you don´t have media literacy, literally you have the response in front of you and you cannot see it.
That's b/c you think their views on Yuu are broadly in line w/ yours.
Not, that is not the reason. Is because, with our agreements and disagreements, they show a real reading comprehension of the Maruto intents and meanings. And also, they know the earlier works of Maruto. I would take you more seriously if you at least watch Saekano, even more with the recent PV released in Maruto X account where Eriri VA promotions the manga and light novel and announces her support to Hikari.
This is my counsel for you.
Vague apologies that leave room for interpretation are not an explicit ask for a conversation.
I agreed with Genn they are vague and ambiguous words who doesn´t generate much trusting (even if, again, Hikari should have realized something from all the things Yami said to her in chapter 41) but they are definitely an ask for a conversation, maybe not too much explicit and very in the typical shy and submissive Yuu style, but they are. Or as minimum, an ask for a response in LINE if Hikari really wants propose talk to him. In his passive and shy way, he returned the ball to her court and is her now who has to take the lead and is her now who is GHOSTING him.
This is reforced by the fact Hikari is taking all those botherings to AVOID Yuu in public, even coming almost late to school, precisely because she doesn´t want talk with him and she knows he wants talk with her, so, she at least got the point.
So, he is right in his decision of doesn´t pressure her too much to avoid more conflicts between them and wait for a moment she feels better and decides take the lead and talk calmly with him, even more if he really believes Hikari will fulfill her promise to Yuu mom.
Absolutely, but she also wasn't putting distance between her and Yuu while hoping he'd fall for her.
When Yuu putted distance between Hikari and him BEFORE that night in the love hotel with Ayami? @GennArc, this girl is going again with the same.
Again, Yuu didn´t decide put distance from Hikari. Ayami decided for him, and again, makes sense he decides focus and priorize his first real girlfriend instead still simping a girl who doesn´t reciprocates him in that moment. He did a deliberate effort to forget and get over Hikari after having his first time with Yami and becoming her boyfriend, and both Yami and Yuu says explicitily in the page.
 
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In a short, the point of Maruto is pro-role reversal and pro-femdom, he supports the girls who takes the lead. And it is fine Yuu would be thus if he found a good dommy girlfriend. The problem starts when Ayami being so ridicuously self-destructive even after accept formally the role of protectress and guide of Yuu as his girlfriend and "senpai".
He trusted on her, and her failed to him, she droped his hand and left fall him.
The same problem, with to inverse, happens with Hikari accepting being the best childhood friend and protectress of Yuu, only to stay paralyzed in the door while she sees how Yami first slaps Yuu and later SA him with the robbed kiss.
Of the three, Yuu is probably who have tried more to be responsible and act correctly during the several crisis even if he obviously is not a leader, but a follower, at least in romantic terms, like Haruki, Tomoya and Yuu (Izumi) before him.
 
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, or, in any case, are a basic part of his personality
I think Maruto is intentionally writing these parts of his personality as a character flaw. Which it's not that I want Yuu to be an alpha male, it's that I think Maruto has written Yuu as self aware enough to recognize his flaws and so it would be character growth for him to work on those weaknesses.

she knows he wants talk with her,
One of the reasons Hikari's spiraling in 44 is that he just apologized for confessing and she doesn't know if that means he's done with her. She's in a better mood at the end b/c him telling her about his convo with Haru indicates he's not. (Also cause it lets her know just how much her friends care about her) but also doesn't say anything about whether he wants to talk.

Which right, the flip of Yuu giving Hikari space is Hikari knows that this is hard for Yuu to talk about and that's why she wants Yuu to initiate the convo. Like how she waits for Yuu to explain why he took the exam rather than asking him about it.

When Yuu putted distance between Hikari and him BEFORE that night in the love hotel with Ayami?
The whole conversation Genn and I were having about how they've been distant since the start of middle school.
 
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I think Maruto is intentionally writing these parts of his personality as a character flaw. Which it's not that I want Yuu to be an alpha male, it's that I think Maruto has written Yuu as self aware enough to recognize his flaws and so it would be character growth for him to work on those weaknesses.
Of course, I said basically the same. Yuu is growing, slowly, but he is really advancing. These painful path of grown is common to all the Maruto male MC characters. That doesn´t change he started as a submissive boy and he will end as a submissive boy. Much more mature and wise, but still a submissive boy for nature, and this is the reason why, IMO, Hikari never will be his only one girlfriend. Her only possibility to triumph is precisely in the harem ending with Yami.
This is the thing you cannot see it. But again, as even HellJester said, Yuu is really giving steps forward and again, you have to consider how Hikari literally thrown him to behind in the gym, she literally made him RETREAT in his advance. You should consider this factor before still criticizing Yuu.
The boy has in his fully right to feel afraid and guilty at the same time. After her aggression in the gym, Hikari lost any right to act in this way. And again, web novel left very clear is not just Hikari ghosting Yuu, is her directly avoiding him in any possible way to his attempts to encounter her in public. Is very logic he thinks if he forces the situation the things only will get worse.
And yes, as I said you, I think he sent his mother to mediate with Hikari.
One of the reasons Hikari's spiraling in 44 is that he just apologized for confessing and she doesn't know if that means he's done with her. She's in a better mood at the end b/c him telling her about his convo with Haru indicates he's not. (Also cause it lets her know just how much her friends care about her) but also doesn't say anything about whether he wants to talk.
This is the kind of things because I say you don´t have media literacy. If you send a LINE messages, is because obviously you want to talk. Even more to a passive boy as Yuu. Hikari at least got this point, even if she is in the right too to think the words of Yuu are ambiguous and he probably could wrote some better, but as a first step in the same cultural festival night, is very good.
Again, he sent the ball in return to her court. And precisely say he talked with Haru is other way more he is repeating, more emphatically, he is disposed to talk with her. Because Hikari knows very well if Yuu are disposed to talk with an unknown girl for the Hikari sake, obviously is because he wants to talk with Hikari.
Again, you are underestimating Hikari intelligence. She is not so foolishness, she knows Yuu is inviting her to talk in his usual passive way, and she is who decides ghost him and avoid him precisely because she knows Yuu is very able to call her in the street. You can attribute this to her distrust on Yuu, I attribute this to her selfish pride, but the point is the same, Yuu clearly invited her to talk and she GHOSTED him.
Yuu uses the conversation with Haru as an excuse to pressures her again and try to break the dead point, testing if Hikari friends talking with him are the differential event who allows him effectively reaches to talk with Hikari.
And again, Yuu mom forced Hikari to promise she will visit Yuu house soon, he is probably trusting in that promise and is other of the reasons why he seemed so calm with Haru and Yuki.
Which right, the flip of Yuu giving Hikari space is Hikari knows that this is hard for Yuu to talk about and that's why she wants Yuu to initiate the convo. Like how she waits for Yuu to explain why he took the exam rather than asking him about it.
If she wanted Yuu to initiate the convo, she wouldn´t be avoiding actively him, the web novel literally says she is almost coming late to class only to being secure he cannot reaches her. At least she would try to organize an "casual" encounter and see if he tries to talk with her or not.
She is acting more Yami than ever, she is directly avoiding and ghosting Yuu, but she is still expects he acts like a stalker "persecuting" her even if her first action in that case undoubtely would be insult and punch Yuu again.
So, she understood perfectly the message, Yuu wants to talk with her, and she DOESNT WANT for the same reason she didn´t want to talk with her friends. She is perfectly aware about Yuu personality and knows both his LINE messages and his mother asking to visite them, is his passive way to express her that he wants to talk with her. There is a reason why Hikari feels RELIEVED when she realizes it was his father, and not Yuu, who was entering in her house.
The whole conversation Genn and I were having about how they've been distant since the start of middle school.
But from her side, not his. He says even after the false love letter thing, he always tried to being the closer possible to Hikari. This is the reason why he was so shocked when Hikari said him she was to study in a different school than him
 
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Her only possibility to triumph is precisely in the harem ending with Yami.
I don't think of this manga in those terms b/c I don't think of this is a contest between Hikari or Aya and I don't think Maruto has written Yuu as a prize. Not even personality wise but structurally/thematically. I think a solid ending here is one where the characters come out the other end having grown up a bit, whatever that means for the relationships.

he boy has in his fully right to feel afraid and guilty at the same time.
Yes Hikari shouldn't have pushed him - but also it doesn't seem to be an issue for Yuu. I think it registered about the same as Aya's slap, which he thinks Aya did nothing wrong. I don't see why he wouldn't apply the same to Hikari given there's nothing in his POV even mentioning it.

At least she would try to organize an "casual" encounter and see if he tries to talk with her or not.
I agree it's immature but I think she's doing this out of fear.
If he doesn't want to talk then she gets confirmation he wants nothing to do w/ her. Waiting for him to reach out lets her stay in the liminal space where she can stay frustrated with him but also be hopeful he will eventually talk to her.

Which yes is cowardly but the reason I think the onus is more on Yuu is b/c according to both Yuu and Hikari he's the one who messed up by lying. I generally think the person who broke it owns the responsibility of fixing it. Which this isn't even a critique of his passiveness, even though I think for this character in particular it would show growth.

Which I'm using passiveness cause honestly man I think the "submissiveness" stuff is more about your kinks than anything happening in text.

for the same reason she didn´t want to talk with her friends
She probably didn't talk to her friends to protect Aya, same reason Yuu first asked them to stay friends with Aya before talking.

If you send a LINE messages, is because obviously you want to talk.
Or b/c you're trying to apologize but avoid the confrontation. Yuu wants Hikari to be not mad at him enough that their moms don't pry. Whether he wants to resolve the issue is an open question in Hikari's mind.

And precisely say he talked with Haru is other way more he is repeating, more emphatically, he is disposed to talk with her.
This happens at the end of the chapter, the reader doesn't know yet if Hikari will keep avoiding him and waiting for him to initiate the convo.

Hikari feels RELIEVED when she realizes it was his father,
chap 44 said:
mix of relief and crushing disappointment that hit me both at once.

He says even after the false love letter thing, he always tried to being the closer possible to Hikari.
At the end of side story 2 he says that the distance between them returned back to childhood friends, which includes being able to go to each other's room. But at the beginning of 3, despite this reset they've not really hung out alone together all of middle school:
Yuu POV said:
spending some time alone together, something we hadn’t done much of since starting middle school.
Going by chapter 1 of the main story, Hikari may not even be really cognizant of this since she may not have cared if they have alone time. But Yuu is cognizant of this & and it's near the end of middle school, which to me reads that he didn't intentionally try to spend more time with her to try and get her to fall for him.
 
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I don't think of this manga in those terms b/c I don't think of this is a contest between Hikari or Aya and I don't think Maruto has written Yuu as a prize. Not even personality wise but structurally/thematically. I think a solid ending here is one where the characters come out the other end having grown up a bit, whatever that means for the relationships.
The point here is Hikari never will be the only one girlfriend of Yuu for the personality reasons I already mentioned. And of course, the title itself of the story. But my point is there: Yuu is growing and making more responsible and mature, but he will be a submissive and passive boy who prefers the girl would be who takes the lead. And that is ok.
Yes Hikari shouldn't have pushed him - but also it doesn't seem to be an issue for Yuu. I think it registered about the same as Aya's slap, which he thinks Aya did nothing wrong. I don't see why he wouldn't apply the same to Hikari given there's nothing in his POV even mentioning it.
Because Yuu thinks that was a punishment he deserved, as we can see in his PoV in chapter 38. Is the same reason why he says "you are so cruel, Yami-senpai", after the slap and the robbed kiss. That doesn´t change he doesn´t want be punched neither insulted again and he acts very defensively during all his convo with Haru.
I agree it's immature but I think she's doing this out of fear.
If he doesn't want to talk then she gets confirmation he wants nothing to do w/ her. Waiting for him to reach out lets her stay in the liminal space where she can stay frustrated with him but also be hopeful he will eventually talk to her.
Again, if this would be the case, the web novel wouldn´t specify all the botherings Hikari is doing to avoid Yuu even tries to talk with her in the street. The point is obvious: Hikari understood perfectly the message of Yuu, she knows him very well after all, she knows how he talks and proposes things, and she is deliberately rejecting his hand.
And Yuu is in the same liminal space, anyway, expecting pass enough time for Hikari can heal and at least feel enough good to takes the lead and talks civilitely with Yuu
Which yes is cowardly but the reason I think the onus is more on Yuu is b/c according to both Yuu and Hikari he's the one who messed up by lying. I generally think the person who broke it owns the responsibility of fixing it. Which this isn't even a critique of his passiveness, even though I think for this character in particular it would show growth.
And he is trying to fixing it, this is the reason why I say he returned the ball to Hikari and he is in fully right to expect at least a response for LINE. The ball is in Hikari court right now.
Which I'm using passiveness cause honestly man I think the "submissiveness" stuff is more about your kinks than anything happening in text.
My kinks? You would mean Yuu and Ayami kinks, in any case. All the Yami-Yuu relationship arc, again, left it ridicuously clear, and this is the reason why Maruto focused those chapters in teenager sex, as a narrative way to show how it was their relationship in general terms, those sex scenes was not unneccessary nor for fanservice. Like sex scenes in White Album 2 anime and visual novel.
You see? This is the kind of things I say you don´t have media literacy. Maruto literally gave us a scene of the androgynous Yami pushing Yuu out the train, kissing him and grabbing him by the dick to later carry him to a love hotel, and you still don´t realize nothing even when Yom showed graphically the boy got arousal for all that thing.
Yami was right, Hikari doesn´t know the real Yuu. The submissive boy who practically bent the head before Yami in the moment he encountered her in the Hikari classroom, almost like a dog who finally has encountered her female owner.
Literally the only missing part was see how Yami pegged Yuu. Takamura is a submissive boy, and if you don´t realize this, you never will understand his personality and how Yami could controlled him so totally.
And is too the reason why Yuu felt attracted for Yami at first sight, because she had something the other girls in middle school never had.
Or b/c you're trying to apologize but avoid the confrontation. Yuu wants Hikari to be not mad at him enough that their moms don't pry. Whether he wants to resolve the issue is an open question in Hikari's mind.
Nothing in Hikari´s mind suggests that is an open question. Also, as I said, I repeat Yuu sent his mother to mediate with Hikari, is other of his passive tactics. He is proposing talk as civilized people. But if you think he deserves endure more insults and physical aggressions...
"mix of relief and crushing disappointment that hit me both at once"
Exactly, a part of her wants see and talk with Yuu, and other part has fear and still wants insult him. She is more Ayami than ever. So, precisely you are giving me the reason is Yuu being right about doesn´t wanting to force the things and giving time and space to Hikari to process and think. And again, waiting the visit Hikari promised to his mother.
This happens at the end of the chapter, the reader doesn't know yet if Hikari will keep avoiding him and waiting for him to initiate the convo.
As I said, this is a new attempt from his part to break the dead point and undoubtely deciding it already passed enough time, this is the reason why he uses the visit of Hikari friends as a reasonable excuse to write to her again and see if this is the missing piece to finally convince Hikari to talk.
And yes, I hope this event finally makes Hikari visits Yuu house or at least call him from her window.
At the end of side story 2 he says that the distance between them returned back to childhood friends, which includes being able to go to each other's room. But at the beginning of 3, despite this reset they've not really hung out alone together all of middle school
Nothing in those words implies they didn´t have dates. Just says those dates were not very intimate than we can say.
Yuu is cognizant of this & and it's near the end of middle school, which to me reads that he didn't intentionally try to spend more time with her to try and get her to fall for him.
Nothing in his chapters or words imply this. Is more implied he tried to close her and Hikari didn´t noticed it or maybe even tried unawarely to far him -for e.g. she trying to make Yuu date other girls-, so he is thinking all his efforts were useless and he needs make a big thing, as Genn said you, to break the dead point.
 
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who prefers the girl would be who takes the lead. And that is ok.
I think it's fine in the abstract. I think the way this manga is written, Yuu's lack of initiative has played a major role in his romantic failures. This isn't even intended as critique, just a statement of how I'm parsing the narrative.

he acts very defensively during all his convo with Haru.
Doesn't seem that way to me? He asks if they'll get mad at him, and tells them the story straightforwardly - he doesn't make excuses or justifications for any of it.

the web novel wouldn´t specify all the botherings Hikari is doing to avoid Yuu even tries to talk with her in the stree
She's avoiding seeing Yuu, she doesn't know if he'd try to talk to her.

Hikari understood perfectly the message of Yuu,
The entire chapter is a spiral of Hikari not knowing what to make of Yuu's messages or his avoidance.

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I haven’t replied.
There’s no way I could.
Because I still don’t understand anything.

What lie?
What exactly are you apologizing for?

For hiding what was going on with Aya-chan?
Or for confessing something you didn’t even mean?

Or… or maybe—

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Then why aren’t you trying to do anything about this awkward mess we’re in?

You could at least come up with some half-baked excuse full of lies, try to smooth things over, pretend it’s nothing, and wait for time to fix it, you know?
…Well, there’s no guarantee I wouldn’t blow up at you for that, though.

Even so, wouldn’t that still be better than this?
Instead of wasting your time saying “sorry,” maybe you could’ve tried saying “it’s a misunderstanding,” just once?

as a narrative way to show how it was their relationship in general terms
I think Maruto centered their relationship on sex to show that they sped run physical intimacy at the cost of emotional intimacy. I think that's why Aya's middle school friend clocks the relationship as doomed in what's gotta be the first few weeks, while Yuu ignores/doesn't address what I think are heavily foreshadowed warning signs of it being doomed and is still clueless a year later.

repeat Yuu sent his mother to mediate with Hikari,
Or they notice the situation, like it says in text and that's why Hikari's mom is asking first:

My mom, and your mom too—they’re both worried sick because they can tell something’s wrong between us!

Do you know how much it’s bothering those kind, softhearted people just because I’ve stopped going over to your house and started cooking dinner at home instead?

Mrs. Shirasaka: “Did something happen with Yuu-kun?”
Mrs. Takamura: “Hey, Hikari-chan, did you and my Yuu have a fight?”


so he is thinking all his efforts were useless

And yet, I didn’t put in the effort to make that happen...
Or rather, I never even seriously thought about what I’d need to do to stand beside Hikari in the first place.

But honestly Yuu's efforts or lack thereof is a discussion I'm completely done w/ having.
 
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Did I miss something? Why is everyone going at Yuu's throat like he's evil and the mastermind behind all this drama? I just recall him getting forcefully kissed, Hikari misunderstanding it, then when he goes to confess he gets pushed over because he didn't tell her about the kiss.
Are you asking about the community or about Haru and Yuki?
I don't see why he needed to tell Hikari about the kiss. He didn't kiss Yami, she kissed him
It's not an obligation of course, but if he seriously wants to be in relationship with Hikari and he now learnt that his ex also happens to be Hikari's best friend, it would be an honest and reasonable thing to tell her about this. And it would be one thing if he thought he'd never meet again with Yami, but he just met her and shared a kiss with her, so this kinda changes the situation.
 
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I think it's fine in the abstract. I think the way this manga is written, Yuu's lack of initiative has played a major role in his romantic failures. This isn't even intended as critique, just a statement of how I'm parsing the narrative.
His romantic failures, yes... his romantic failures with Hikari. Precisely this is the way of Maruto to show they are incompatible and only in an union of three with Yami they would work together as lovers, balancing all together mutually.
This is precisely the reason why he is shown as so compatible with Ayami and they managed to have a so strong relationship of true love who ended damned by their only one real enemy: the communication problems of Kamiya, I mean, Ayami.
Doesn't seem that way to me? He asks if they'll get mad at him, and tells them the story straightforwardly - he doesn't make excuses or justifications for any of it.
I mean when he sees Haru, the first thing he does is ask if she's come to lecture him and blame him for everything.
She's avoiding seeing Yuu, she doesn't know if he'd try to talk to her.
She knows the possibility of Yuu would try to talk to her is very high, if not, she wouldn´t take so many botherings, so, she definitely got the message and understood Yuu wants to talk but Hikari is making herself the unreachable because she wants Yuu beg to her.
The entire chapter is a spiral of Hikari not knowing what to make of Yuu's messages or his avoidance.
Again, the entire chapter shows very clear Hikari is a hypocrite who cries mentally for the "avoidance of Yuu" but later makes all the possible for don´t want see him.
I think Maruto centered their relationship on sex to show that they sped run physical intimacy at the cost of emotional intimacy. I think that's why Aya's middle school friend clocks the relationship as doomed in what's gotta be the first few weeks, while Yuu ignores/doesn't address what I think are heavily foreshadowed warning signs of it being doomed and is still clueless a year later.
Once again, you come so close to the real answer, only to fail in the last minute, with reason you are so similar to Hikari, you die in the shore after too much swim.
Is true Maruto centered their relationship on sex to show how Yami tries to avoid emotional intimacy, but Yuu pressures her to manage emotional intimacy. But the focus on sex is mainly to show the reason why you complain about "Yuu doesn´t address the warning signs": because Yami is the boyfriend of this relationship and is her who takes the decisions here, this is the reason why she ignores the warnings of Yuu about the external locus reasons who will end destroying their relationship.
And the reason, again, is obvious, he is a submissive boy and he wouldn´t go against her dommy girlfriend desires, he trusts on her and this is the reason why Yuu decides believe in Yami when she says all was fixed in her house, and again, Yami being sincere in this point remarks ironically how wrong as Yami.
And yes, this trusting bond/chain only breaks when Yami says in chapter 40 "I got bored from you, Yuu" precisely as a way to pressure him to go to look Hikari.
Or they notice the situation, like it says in text and that's why Hikari's mom is asking first:
Hikari´s mom noticed the situation, true. But Hikari doesn´t see what happens in Takamura House. So, she doesn´t know nothing. So, the most probably is Yuu talking with his mother or asking her to go to talk with Hikari when his mother noticed the situation and asked him for the problems with Hikari.
But honestly Yuu's efforts or lack thereof is a discussion I'm completely done w/ having.
Again, the line about "I never even seriously thought about what I’d need to do to stand beside Hikari in the first place" is precisely one of the proofs he is realizing in this point he is not enough "masculine" to be able to attract Hikari.
 
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His romantic failures, yes... his romantic failures with Hikari.
And Aya. Her core complaint was Yuu didn't reach out his hand or fight for her. A sub complaint is Yuu seems to be just going with the flow in their conversation about her family, just accepting what she says as true. However much you may think her rant is unhinged, I think it's very intentional on Maruto's part that her complaints are fundementally about Yuu's passivity.

You keep going on about how the submissive boy just accepted everything his dommy mommy girlfriend did - even if that argument was true, then he lost the relationship by being so submissive he accepted her ghosting.

the first thing he does is ask if she's come to lecture him and blame him for everything.
Looking at the panel , seems like he said that in a resigned way, not a defensive one.

She knows the possibility of Yuu would try to talk to her is very high,
She knows the possibility that she'd run into Yuu is high b/c in like chapter 2 she's purposely orchestrating the meetings.

very clear Hikari is a hypocrite who cries mentally for the "avoidance of Yuu" but later makes all the possible for don´t want see him.
Hikari would like Yuu to take the proactive step of explaining himself and is avoiding running into Yuu accidentally b/c she's afraid it'll confirm her worst fears (that he doesn't want anything to do w/ her).
Yes, this is very Aya like behavior b/c Aya pulled the same thing w/ Yuu. Wanted him to come and find her, didn't reach out b/c she was afraid she'd be rejected.
Which going back to the top, what both girls are after is Yuu taking the initiative to show them that she is who he wants.

Once again, you come so close to the real answer, only to fail in the last minute
Dude, this is condescending as all out, especially since in the rest of your post you never address the core of the argument. Aya's friend knew Aya well enough to recognize the alarm bells, while it's been a year and Yuu still doesn't understand why Aya ghosted.

So, the most probably is Yuu talking with his mother
Or that his mom has noticed Hikari hasn't been coming over and mentioned it to Hikari on her own. Dunno that seems more obvious than a teenage boy pulling his mom into his relationship drama, especially since the Yuu POV chapters only have him talking to his parents about the exam and no relationship stuff.
 

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