It is still completely unreasonable to be mad about this no matter how you frame it, especially without trying to convey why at all. Just own you're being childish and talk it out, or shut up man, who do you think you are? You don't even know each other. And who does the friend think she is? She has the balls to talk about not wanting to meddle without knowing about others, yet still does it but on the protagonist anyway. Shut up lady, sit down. What a ridiculous sense of entitlement
Thanks for the chapter!