Imasara desuga, Osananajimi o Suki ni Natteshimaimashita - Ch. 49 - An Astronomical Inevitability

[peortega1]

There is no mutual respect or grounded equal relationship there.

Other dude who didn´t understand the FEMALE DOMINATION and BDSM themes here.

Finds a better man, has a better relationship slowly grows apart from the other 2 while they go into an endless cycle of self destruction

The usual misandry was not to be missed, as always. The mere fact that Hikari pushed Yuu in chapter 38 proves that NEITHER SHE NOR YAMI DESERVE HIM.

Which kind of annoying if Yuu's character growth happens off screen.

So, are we starting to admit that Yom really does have a grudge against Yuu and has done everything possible to undermine him as a character in the adaptation?
The boy told Yami in chapter 40 he was willing to be her friend again and talk to her. Hikari expressed similar desires. What's so surprising?

 

[peortega1]

Eh, like it takes Hikari reaching out for her to pull herself out of her spiral & she's currently being too cowardly to face Hikari. Yuu's the easy one b/c she expects him to not call her out on any of her behavior b/c he never has.

On the contrary, it's Yuu who has most often reproached Yami and openly called her a liar, ever since that night in the love hotel in chapters 24-25. However, he has always been submissive and faithful to her wishes when he feels she is sincere and honest with him. Yuu is disposed, or he was, to follow Yami to the very depths of hell, which is why Hikari was so amazed by "Yami-sama's true story".
Hikari, in any case, is the one who has LESS OBEYED Yami. Of course, she is not Yami's submissive, Yuu is Ayami the dominatrix's submissive boyfriend. But there's a reason Yami said in chapter 45.5 that Hikari is the one who has reproached her the least and that she's still astonished that Hikari never blamed her for anything.
But yes, I already figured you wouldn't like that, just as I predicted, Yami would always prefer and choose Yuu over Hikari. Even if she, as usual, is too cowardly to fully admit it to herself (like in Yuu's omake 4 when she started pacing around when he began asking her "Yami-senpai, what are we?" like the girl in the relationship that Yuu who is).

?? Hikari is the character who femcels would typically identify with - the self-sacrificing good girl who lost out b/c her crush went for the first girl who threw herself at him

Yuu was not the crush of Hikari when Yami who threw herself at him. In any case, this is "the toxic ex-girlfriend of my crush forcefully kissed him before my eyes, and she was my classmate all this time and she said she was disposed to accept I would date her ex-boyfriend".

I think if Aya and Yuu do get back together, that's just the standard "I can fix 'em/love heals all/broken bird" trope.

Not, this is the "she is the boyfriend of this relationship" trope.
For those interested, I think we'll see Hikari either opting for polygamy or making Yuu choose between her and Yami. There are already several precedents for this in rom-coms.

 

[Arlo]

Yeah, right. A character I don't like = a character incapable of good things, basically a lesser being.

No - a person, real or fictional, who is entirely self-absorbed and has no consideration for other people's needs, desires or feelings is incapable of love, because love requires the exact qualities that they lack.

My opinion of them is irrelevant.

 

[Rhogog]

Honestly best ending would be time skip of a woman at the alter, revealed to be Hikari, then the groom walks up, some random Chad, and you see Yami and Yuu on opposite sides of the venue from eqchother. Also one of Hikari's friends catching the bouquet.

 

[youdontmatter308]

She deserves a love without that much of a mess

Man Hikari knew that boy liked her man stop it. She noticed that Yuu was sad and never even tried to understand but since he was a lil heartbroken she finally “noticed him”

 

[youdontmatter308]

T

Weird to see a bunch of posts talking about Yami's supposed love for Yuu.

I guarantee that Yami is entirely incapable of feeling love. Lust certainly, and need and dependence and a fleeting sense of satisfaction while she has a dick in her, but love? Not a chance. She's too selfish and dishonest for that.

That sounds idiotic bro. She obviously likes him but thinks he’s too innocent for her. She wouldn’t have flashed out on him at the festival if she didn’t love him.

 

[Alzu]

I was right you little shits. Yami will try and steal Yuu away. It is known.

 

[GennArc]

No - a person, real or fictional, who is entirely self-absorbed and has no consideration for other people's needs, desires or feelings is incapable of love, because love requires the exact qualities that they lack.

My opinion of them is irrelevant.

You clearly expressed an opinion about the character and then said it's irrelevant.
It is indeed irrelevant in the sense that it ignores two volumes of narration. But I was talking more about how a negative attitude leads to basically dehumanizing people, fictional or real. I've seen it a lot IRL recently, so it's really upsetting to find it here too.

 

[brian0057]

This thread is reaching dangerous levels of projection.

 

[story645]

Yami will try and steal Yuu away.

Can't really steal a person who doesn't wanna be stolen, but here in particular Hikari basically also gave them her blessing. Hikari wants Aya to be happy and doesn't want Yuu if he's still in love w/ Aya.

It is indeed irrelevant in the sense that it ignores two volumes of narration.

Aya putting the onus on Hikari and Yuu to "save her" is a very selfish form of love. She sorta acknowledges how much it's breaking Hikari to feel responsible for Aya's emotional stability, but even in this chapter Aya is unwilling to do the hard thing that would help Hikari of talking to Hikari.

 

[NerimaShinjuku]

Childhood friends end up as a couple, Yami ends up maturing from girlfailure to dependable friend

If you think there are signposts pointing to any other ending, it’s your own headcanon

 

[trout192]

In which chapter does Hikari drop a nuclear bomb on Yami?

 

[jojoka]

The usual misandry was not to be missed, as always. The mere fact that Hikari pushed Yuu in chapter 38 proves that NEITHER SHE NOR YAMI DESERVE HIM.

Nah yami is perfect for him she's a dumb slut retarded hoe and he's a dumbass retard who hasn't learned anything. Maybe after they have a kid and she abuses the kid or she cheats on him with smooth talker he will learn his lesson lol

 

[gmkgoat]

Yamibros feasting rn. Stocks in Yamicoin are way up. Hikaricoin in shambles.

 

[Greinhmorf]

That was the point, she set impossible odds for reaching out to Hikari so she could take the easier and more desirable to her out of reaching out to Yuu.

No, the odds for reaching out to Yuu were the same as for reaching out to Hikari, 10 heads for Hikari and 10 tails for Yuu

 

[GennArc]

Aya putting the onus on Hikari and Yuu to "save her" is a very selfish form of love.

You mean her words from 45.5? I wouldn't say it's the entire characteristic of her love.

but even in this chapter Aya is unwilling to do the hard thing that would help Hikari of talking to Hikari.

Eh, isn't that more of an indication that the love she feels for Yuu is just stronger? Talking to Hikari is the "right" thing to do, but it being right has nothing to do with love.

 

[story645]

I wouldn't say it's the entire characteristic of her love.

She fairly consistently describes Yuu and Hikari as her rescuers/saviors.

isn't that more of an indication that the love she feels for Yuu is just stronger?

I think she's retreating to the cowardly move of reaching for the easier thing, which Maruto has written as a flaw of hers. Even if she loves Yuu more, that's the point; she's doing the selfish easy thing she wants of reaching out to Yuu first even though Hikari is the one Aya believes is hurting and therefore should be the priority.

the odds for reaching out to Yuu were the same as for reaching out to Hikari, 10 heads for Hikari and 10 tails for Yuu

Have mentioned this a few times but she set the odds first for Hikari. She only decided on Yuu for tails after she'd run the sims enough for it to seem possible, and sealed the impossiblity of Hikari by rigging the game.

 

[GennArc]

She fairly consistently describes Yuu and Hikari as her rescuers/saviors.

That's not the same as "putting the onus on Hikari and Yuu to "save her", that's just describing their past. Yuu also said in chapter 47 (novel) that she had saved him, does it mean he is doing the same?

Even if she loves Yuu more, that's the point; she's doing the selfish easy thing she wants of reaching out to Yuu first even though Hikari is the one Aya believes is hurting and therefore should be the priority.

Regardless of why she did it, again, that's beyond the point. Not doing the right thing doesn't have anything to do with love.

 

[story645]

does it mean he is doing the same?

Kinda? That's why they're "kindred" spirits and how Haru gets the impression that their relationship was about "mutual wound licking". It's also why it's Hikari who initiates the making up conversation. He doesn't need Aya to save him after the breakup mostly b/c Hikari slowly edged her way back into his life and things are good again.

that's just describing their past.

This whole arc has been Aya retreating from everything until she took Hikari's outstretched hand:

https://x.com/i/status/2056154226947207657

https://imgur.com/9MseaH6

Not doing the right thing doesn't have anything to do with love.

Aya loves Hikari too but is making the selfish choice of choosing Yuu first & far as I can tell that was the OP's point.

 

[Baddtraxx]

Fuuuck oooff ugh