it was like this, it was between my little sibling and his church friend (S for sibling, C for church friend)
S: "man (irl name) hasn't gotten any girls, i think he might be gay"
C: "yeah he's probably gay"
i deny that statement
C: "what's your type then"
my little sibling was suspicious of me being atheist (i'm not) and I didn't want to them to know my type because they'll probably use that against me, but if I didn't tell them, they would probably see it as confirmation that i'm "gay". Not to mention, my family (and probably most of my local church community) are quite homophobic. I just gave up and told them my type...