thats prolly a good idea. i think i head over and read upotte! . . . OH WAIT. i can't
anyway: i admit i overreacted in the previous post(s).
with a bit of distance between the time of writing and now, i would have phrased things differently or would not have written them at all.
i won't delete or alter anything i posted here though.
in my defense: i have encountered some stuff recently irl that made me pretty leery, jumpy and caused me to expect the worst from everything.