Harapeko Oyako to Motokare Yanushi - Ch. 21

[MangaDex]

 

[alacaelum]

My guy... relax a little... you just went a little too strong there.

Yeah... she wants you too... but kissing when she was sick... not cool, man, not cool.

Let things cool a bit, but don't give up, okay? It will be alright.

 

[FearlessDawg]

Oh man, this is why hermits are no good smh smh 😓 Joking aside, he's not wrong about her not disliking it, but he REALLY needs to chill 😭

 

[rob1610]

I guess this explains why it felt things went too quickly in the last chapter. Still, an actually good reason for just ignoring it and moving on, huh? She's putting her daughter first. I actually like that.

 

[AzrefReza]

Just because she hasn’t room for him in her heart doesn’t mean she hasn’t room for him in some lower part of her body.

 

[Este074]

She even pulled him back lolll but still bad boy

 

[Kaito57]

« My daughter is my priority. »

Until someone propose you to trade her for a cheeseburger lol

 

[FiddlePop]

Yikes

 

[dudelookatree]

I...need help appreciating the "I only have room in my heart for my child" trope because it makes no sense to me.

Most people with a kid have a partner. 90% of households with children in Japan are not single-parent (70-90 globally).

Like. Bazillions of people have room in their heart for a child and a spouse. Or two kids and a spouse. If she had a second kid would she not love them?

 

[Zikeang]

I...need help appreciating the "I only have room in my heart for my child" trope because it makes no sense to me.

Most people with a kid have a partner. 90% of households with children in Japan are not single-parent (70-90 globally).

Like. Bazillions of people have room in their heart for a child and a spouse. Or two kids and a spouse. If she had a second kid would she not love them?

it's a stability thing I think. for her, entering romantic relationships, potentially breaking up, and dating as a whole means less time for her daughter and makes her daughter's life unstable.

kyou won't be going through breakups if she just doesn't date anyone

 

[sachiotakli]

I...need help appreciating the "I only have room in my heart for my child" trope because it makes no sense to me.

Most people with a kid have a partner. 90% of households with children in Japan are not single-parent (70-90 globally).

Like. Bazillions of people have room in their heart for a child and a spouse. Or two kids and a spouse. If she had a second kid would she not love them?

it's a stability thing I think. for her, entering romantic relationships, potentially breaking up, and dating as a whole means less time for her daughter and makes her daughter's life unstable.

kyou won't be going through breakups if she just doesn't date anyone

Am late, but what ziekang said, and imo because being in love and acting on it is another responsibility that would also affect her daughter, if not also another part of herself.

She has a responsibility to making sure her daughter has as stable of a life as she can give her, and adding another person into the family unit that encroaches deeper into their personal life is different from living with a landlord/ex-boyfriend. She can get distracted from fulfilling what she wants for her daughter if she allows herself to chase after a love that would affect how they would live, which would mean she wouldn't be able to keep her daughter at the forefront of her mind if it does come to pass that she's distracted.

Just because 90% of households are 2-parent household doesn't mean that that houshold started with the same situation as these characters. There is significantly more care that needs to be given to a change in environment and relationship outside of just "oh we definitely love one another, let's just get married and not think about what my daughter might think about it".