tbh, I think Bruhilde should see Wilfred's proposal in a more positive light.
Given Rozemyne's health, there's a real risk of her collapsing again if she attends all those tea parties.
Whether she collapses or rejects invites would negatively affect her reputation & the duchy's new products.
Wilfred tanking the large chunks of those invites will reduce Rozemyne's workload when she returns