@tazzrawr thanks! it turns out i already read most of them hehe. i think the only one who could scratch my itch other that elf bf is Tonari no Furi-san go Tonikaku Kowa.
Oh yeah! i recently found a hidden gem today. do check it out! https://mangadex.org/title/16972/kekkon-shite-mo-koi-shiteru