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Thank you all for your hard work and this feast you've thrown to us rabid dogs ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
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If you like it you should have put a flipin ring on it my dude. Don't be mad cuz you see that he wants him. Lol Another masterpiece.
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Ryuh Han is being a controlling dick, but honestly Lee Geum is obviously a gangster (he had lackies and they were beating up a guy, remember?) to readers, so I am a bit worried for Sang Hwa.
But unless Ryu Hwa knows for sure, he is being a bit unreasonable and is judging by appearance. Even if he's really worried for a friend who's meeting someone from online... and even if his assumption is correct... whew, the power control leapt out even from the beginning and I was like -breathe-
Boi.
That being said, Sang Hwa is seriously projecting his unrequited feelings onto Rruh Han and making assumptions. It's always "you don't even like me so"... dude you haven't told him! He can't be just a friend? If you're frustrated, you have to first communicate why you're upset, otherwise he might not realize why you're drifting off from him. Like it almost feels like instead of Ryuh Han underperforming as a friend, he's just frustated Ryuh Han is "obviously straight".
But unless Ryu Hwa knows for sure, he is being a bit unreasonable and is judging by appearance. Even if he's really worried for a friend who's meeting someone from online... and even if his assumption is correct... whew, the power control leapt out even from the beginning and I was like -breathe-
Boi.
That being said, Sang Hwa is seriously projecting his unrequited feelings onto Rruh Han and making assumptions. It's always "you don't even like me so"... dude you haven't told him! He can't be just a friend? If you're frustrated, you have to first communicate why you're upset, otherwise he might not realize why you're drifting off from him. Like it almost feels like instead of Ryuh Han underperforming as a friend, he's just frustated Ryuh Han is "obviously straight".
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They have such a sweet relationship, and I really love how Lee Geum makes it clear he also values Sang Hwa. That being said, I do think Sang Hwa has a tendency to put all of his energy into one person, which is unhealthy, especially considering he doesn’t seem to have any close friends other than Ryuh Han. It’s interesting how in another manhwa Sang Hwa might see Ryuh Han’s jealousy as hope for his unrequited crush, which would reignite his feelings, rather than extinguish them. I definitely think Ryuh Han needs to put more effort into their friendship and reign in his anger, but his concerns are somewhat valid. My opinion on Ryuh Han pretty much depends on how he views his relationship with Sang Hwa. If he’s always known Sang Hwa likes him and is acting possessive with no intentions to reciprocate, then that’s really messed up. But, if he has no idea how Sang Hwa feels, then I think he’s just inconsiderate.
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@Neko-min I really like how analytical Sang Hwa is too. It really gives the story so much depth. He doesn't view himself or others superficially
@redbeanbunny @victoriareadsmanga But outside of the romantic situation and whether Lee Geum is dangerous, Ryuh Han has legitimately been a bad friend. He basically ditched him for people he just met in college (the freshman welcome etc), he keeps Sang Hwa at arms length (purposefully being vague when he's asked things) etc.; which would all be fine if Ryuh Han just moved on but he strings Sang along with the tiniest shows of friendship and he's pushy about delving into Sang's life. He wants to be number one in Sang Hwa's life while not giving anything back to him. This is why Sang Hwa views Ryuh Han even more negatively in light of Lee Geum. Like 'you didn't even gaf about my well-being before but once I have anyone else in my life, you try to poison that relationship.' It's like Ryuh Han thinks Sang Hwa deserves nothing
@redbeanbunny @victoriareadsmanga But outside of the romantic situation and whether Lee Geum is dangerous, Ryuh Han has legitimately been a bad friend. He basically ditched him for people he just met in college (the freshman welcome etc), he keeps Sang Hwa at arms length (purposefully being vague when he's asked things) etc.; which would all be fine if Ryuh Han just moved on but he strings Sang along with the tiniest shows of friendship and he's pushy about delving into Sang's life. He wants to be number one in Sang Hwa's life while not giving anything back to him. This is why Sang Hwa views Ryuh Han even more negatively in light of Lee Geum. Like 'you didn't even gaf about my well-being before but once I have anyone else in my life, you try to poison that relationship.' It's like Ryuh Han thinks Sang Hwa deserves nothing
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@Ceerus No I agree Ryuh Han is a controlling POS, but I meant to say Sang Hwa spends a lot of time thinking about how it's like "oh you'll never look my way" romantically instead of actually why Ryuh Han is a bad friend. He does a little, but it feels mostly like it's because he started to see Lee Geum in a romantic light now and thinks theres a chance for that and compare romantically. Like in an earlier chapter Ryuh Han was like "careful with drinking" (ojay in this ex. a good friend way) and all Sang Hwa got out of that was "omg but you'd say that to anyone though 
... but mirae would only say it to me!". Like no matter how I look at it that's not leading someone on, like thats what i say to my friends too with care. It doesn't make what Ryuh Han does later any better but *shrug* it still shows how Sang Hwa thinks is unhealthy.
It would be good for Sang Hwa to adjust how he fixates on people. Which he seems to be working out, but i assume it's gonna take a bit in the story.
Even if Le Geum is a good partner, he won't be able to have good relationship esp when the gangster stuff crops up if he can't communicate and keeps this up. Ryuh Han is making shit assumptions bc he's jealous, but Le Geum being involved in shady business is actually true.
Tldr we agree on Ryuh Han being controlling and shit but I'm saying Sang Hwa has stuff to work out.
And all that is gonna be one of the fun parts of seeing the story unfold 😉
... but mirae would only say it to me!". Like no matter how I look at it that's not leading someone on, like thats what i say to my friends too with care. It doesn't make what Ryuh Han does later any better but *shrug* it still shows how Sang Hwa thinks is unhealthy.It would be good for Sang Hwa to adjust how he fixates on people. Which he seems to be working out, but i assume it's gonna take a bit in the story.
Even if Le Geum is a good partner, he won't be able to have good relationship esp when the gangster stuff crops up if he can't communicate and keeps this up. Ryuh Han is making shit assumptions bc he's jealous, but Le Geum being involved in shady business is actually true.
Tldr we agree on Ryuh Han being controlling and shit but I'm saying Sang Hwa has stuff to work out.
And all that is gonna be one of the fun parts of seeing the story unfold 😉
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Thank you so much for the updates!! I love this manga!!!💓💓💓💓
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Thank you for the huge update! I’m really liking the direction this manhwa is going so far and I look forward to see what happens next!
This manhwa is a very solid BL based on where it currently stands. The protagonist is pretty relatable and competent, and the main relationship develops in a realistic manner. I recommend this to anyone who’s looking for a heartwarming BL story with a non-toxic(!!) main relationship (except for Ryun Han, he can go lol)
This manhwa is a very solid BL based on where it currently stands. The protagonist is pretty relatable and competent, and the main relationship develops in a realistic manner. I recommend this to anyone who’s looking for a heartwarming BL story with a non-toxic(!!) main relationship (except for Ryun Han, he can go lol)
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Ok so we all re aware that RYUHAN likes sanghwa too. its that typical story about bestfriends [that go way back] ; they fall in love with each other but they dont say anything to each other , one will start to hide it by dating girls and the other will cry in loneliness then he will find his true love . now at this point the other guy will get jealous and tell him he loves him but guess what?! too late now this guy already has fallen love with the new guy. ... they had the chance to be with each other but the misunderstandings ...sighs... i dont blame anyone here . i know why they did what they did. it s just so sad . anyways , i guess its not meant to be.
Nontheless, i ship leegeum hyung and sanghwa . they re just so cute together.
Nontheless, i ship leegeum hyung and sanghwa . they re just so cute together.
I want to have a Geum in my life too, he brings so many tasty and diverse dishes >o< but yeah, how could anybody eat that much every time?! There wouldn't be a problem if they met once in a while but if they meet several days... boy has to start exercising! xD
Agree with many, I also need Sangwha to change his mindset a bit (he's working on it which I'm glad), he doesn't need to replace anyone with another, that would just translate his obsession or unhealthy behaviors from person to person, but wouldn't solve the main issue behind all that. Personally, I think it doesn't really matter if Geum loves Sangwha as well, being too dependent on one person is risky; if one day that person disappears or makes a mistake or something goes south, then your whole mind, body, and world will be destroyed; and tbh that ain't fair for anyone involved. No one else but you are responsible for your own state of mind, feelings, or actions; doing otherwise would be just unfair and a burden for both.
And yeah, there are some manipulative sh1tty people out there, but in normal conditions, people aren't trying to destroying us per se, so we can't go and meet people to project our own traumas, fears, or insecurities over them, even if some of their actions are a trigger for us. Also. this idea of monopolizing someone is again super dangerous, ofc we can feel a bit of that when we're in love, but u can't be too obsessed with that. I just hope everyone can mature, especially Sangwha because he's the one who needs it the most.
And yeah, as I said some chapters ago, I can understand Ryuh Han's concerns to a certain extent, but regardless of his true feelings or not, he really didn't treat Sangwha in a nice way, he's not emotionally responsible, he's not accountable for his actions and yeah, once again I can see that he's probably in love with Sangwha, but feelings that are not shared just become trash. That's a lesson for him and Sangwha equally.
Tnks a lot for all the chapters! >u<
Agree with many, I also need Sangwha to change his mindset a bit (he's working on it which I'm glad), he doesn't need to replace anyone with another, that would just translate his obsession or unhealthy behaviors from person to person, but wouldn't solve the main issue behind all that. Personally, I think it doesn't really matter if Geum loves Sangwha as well, being too dependent on one person is risky; if one day that person disappears or makes a mistake or something goes south, then your whole mind, body, and world will be destroyed; and tbh that ain't fair for anyone involved. No one else but you are responsible for your own state of mind, feelings, or actions; doing otherwise would be just unfair and a burden for both.
And yeah, there are some manipulative sh1tty people out there, but in normal conditions, people aren't trying to destroying us per se, so we can't go and meet people to project our own traumas, fears, or insecurities over them, even if some of their actions are a trigger for us. Also. this idea of monopolizing someone is again super dangerous, ofc we can feel a bit of that when we're in love, but u can't be too obsessed with that. I just hope everyone can mature, especially Sangwha because he's the one who needs it the most.
And yeah, as I said some chapters ago, I can understand Ryuh Han's concerns to a certain extent, but regardless of his true feelings or not, he really didn't treat Sangwha in a nice way, he's not emotionally responsible, he's not accountable for his actions and yeah, once again I can see that he's probably in love with Sangwha, but feelings that are not shared just become trash. That's a lesson for him and Sangwha equally.
Tnks a lot for all the chapters! >u<
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