polyamory and polygamy are very different things
In polyamory it's just a MUTUAL relationship between multiple people, and in healthy ones it tends to be that all people are equally interested in each other
In polygamy it's 1 person who is married to multiple people, and it's not healthy because the power dynamics are uneven- the person who has multiple spouses has more power over the spouses themselves.
so like polyamory can be healthy but with polygamy it's a big no
and this is clearly polygamy so y'all can stay but I'm out